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Old Apr 01, 2008, 01:14 PM
mountaindew24 mountaindew24 is offline
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Yesterday afternoon my T called and said she wanted to see me this morning. I went and I swear I wish i hadn't went because she acting like holier than thou attitude and making me feel like I don't know what. Then I told her I did not want to see her no more, and I wanted to another T. she looked at me said I will not let you see another T. Can you all Help me? can she do this what should I do know. then i was leaving she said would have to go back on the 14th of this month. I'm like NO way

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Old Apr 01, 2008, 01:17 PM
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Does she usually act like that?

You don't have to do anything. If you don't want to go back, then you don't go back and that's that.

Was this just a particularly bad session or have you been thinking for awhile that you don't want to go back?
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Old Apr 01, 2008, 01:22 PM
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there are days she in good mood then other she a B****, Past 2 months I notice a change in session her attitude at me
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Old Apr 01, 2008, 01:30 PM
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Well it seems as though you were open enough with her to say that you didn't want to come back and you want another T-- have you discussed this perceived changed in attitude with her? Could it be that depending on what is going on in session triggers you to look at her in a certain way or is she really acting like that to you? I think it is an important thing to discuss. I'm not dismissing what you are saying-- it is entirely possible that she is acting a certain, but I know with my T there are many times when I have projected my own feelings onto him and that effects how I perceive him.
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Old Apr 01, 2008, 06:14 PM
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mountaindew, I'm sorry things aren't going well for you in therapy right now. I don't know why or if they can be fixed, but I do know that your T cannot prevent you from quitting therapy with her and seeing another T. She can't force you to see her. It is your choice.
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