[SingDanceRunLife]

I've been in T for 6 months now...And I'm really sick of it. Half the time I go, I don't want to at all, and the other half the time, I don't want to talk.

I like my T...A lot. She's easy to talk to, and nice, and helpful...And I wouldn't have come nearly this far without her, but it's not like it used to be.

I want out, but at the same time, I don't.

I have no idea what to do.

[chaotic13]

Doesn't sound too productive to me. Do you think you have reached the point of diminished return in this therapeutic relationship? Maybe you need a break or some other type of change.

Some on this forum have mentioned where a simple change in seating position spiced up a session. Is there another chair in the room? I'm still wondering went I will have the guts to move off the remote corner of the ugly couch.

Have you told your T that you are feeling things are a bit flat at the moment? Being able to discuss and work though when relationships get stale could yield very valuable communication skills to be used in other relationships.

[SingDanceRunLife]

Yeah...I'm not sure how productive we are anymore. I kinda feel like we're just wasting time.

There are certainly other places in the room to sit, but they would feel wrong. I absolutely always have to sit in the right corner of the couch. Yesterday, I didn't because I was soaked and cold and my T has a little space heater, so I sat in the middle of the couch to be closer to that...And I hated it. I can hide in my corner if I want to, I think that's why I initially chose it.

No, I haven't talked to her about it...I'm scared. I never talk to people like that.