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Grand Magnate
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Jun 23, 2008 at 04:41 PM
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Pink,
I've held out on a response because this deal makes me nervous! LOL OMG I don't think I could handle it. However, I do think you can. I also think that your T is so thoughtful and it is obvious that he really cares and is wiling to keep trying different ways to help you stop si'ing. 
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Grand Magnate
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Jun 23, 2008 at 04:53 PM
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I say -- Don't analyze it, be grateful someone cares about you. Don't worry and focus on the deal details or if you ultimately succeed or fail.
I think the message he was conveying in this deal is the most important thing to focus on Pinksoil. To me he is telling you that he accepts who you and the things that you do. However he cares for you too much to let you to continue to avoid addressing this issue. Instead of telling you simply "don't do it!" he is trying to explore ways to help you diminish/extinguish this behavior. Pinksoil I don't know what goes though your mind as you begin to actually cut. I would try to remember his caring and how much better it would feel to be chatting with him during your second session this week. Good luck Pink. __________________ "Joy is your sole's knowledge that if you don't get the promotion, keep the relationship, or buy the house, it's because you weren't meant to.You're meant to have something better, something richer, something deeper, Something More." (Sara Ban Breathnach) |
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Poohbah
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Jun 24, 2008 at 09:34 PM
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I think you handled that great Pink...a year ago, you would've threw something at him...giggle.
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