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Sep 26, 2008, 11:55 PM
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Back last year when some friends here encouraged me to find a T, well it was impossible at the time. There werent any down here and i would have had to travel to the city or another are and pay for it. I had no money to pay either. A month or so later Family Services reopened and i called. Had appt for the following week and the week after saw my counsler for the first time. Took me months before i started to trust her.
She has been so wonderful to me, very caring. She tells me exactly what she thinks. One time telling me i have built a brick building around me and that we would remove a brick at a time. I got nervous one time, overhearing some counslers talking about one of them leaving. I thought it was her saying it. When we got in the room i asked if she was leaving. She told me, nope. Said she would be there till i put her out of a job. Anyway, she's on top of all the stuff thats been going on with me lately. Out of the blue, she called me today asking how i was doing and if need be i could come in and see her. I opted out, but thought that was very nice of her. She told me, well on monday we'll talk about that appt in the morning. I think i'm one of the lucky ones here to have a counsler i fit with and who does care. Just wanted ya'll to know they are out there and waiting for you to walk through their door. Thats all. Now i feel like an idiot for writing this and want to erase it. I'm gonna post it anyway. Doubt anyone here cares to read this. Seems like most are having problems with their T's. Just thought i'd share. |
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Sep 27, 2008, 03:10 AM
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 I have a wonderful therapist, I often feel like I don't deserve her but dang if I am about to let go of her.  Most of my fretting comes from my insecurities, I am not worthy of much of anything, or so I still tend to believe. But my therapist, I know she cares and she is there for me. I am a lot healthier now thanks to working with her than I have ever been before this. I am glad you have a great therapist but mine is the bestest!!!  
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Sep 27, 2008, 03:12 AM
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Hey ((chalmette))
I am glad you posted! It is so good to hear that you have found a T that you can work with. Quote:
Although I am one of those people who posts about ruptures, I actually have a very close relationship with T-we just fight sometimes. LOL It's so good to hear positive things and I absolutely love that she called you out of the blue. That is awesome. 
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Sep 27, 2008, 07:35 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((((( chalmette )))))))))))))))))))))))
I'm glad you have a therapist that is so wonderful, and I'm glad you posted about it!!!! I am one of the lucky ones as well....my T is so caring, patient, solid, supportive. We have our ruptures, but he is always willing to admit his part, and works really hard to reconnect. It feels good to hear good T stories 
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Sep 27, 2008, 07:37 AM
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Chalmette, Thats great to read!
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Sep 27, 2008, 08:42 AM
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(((((((((( Chalmette )))))))))) I am glad that you have such a wonderful T, I also have an awesome T.
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Sep 27, 2008, 09:47 AM
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Hey Chalmette,
I think it's great that you have a good T. And thanks for sharing. I'm supper lucky in that I have an awesome pdoc, and T, and a really good addictions dr., although I still don't feel comfortable really openning up to her yet. --splitimage
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Sep 27, 2008, 12:44 PM
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 I have a good psych too.................and I'm very grateful..........
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And if your head explodes with dark forbodings too...I'll see you on the darkside of the moon......
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Sep 27, 2008, 12:53 PM
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chalmette, I'm glad to hear things are going so well with your therapist. She sounds really caring and you sound like you have a really good relationship.
I'm one of the lucky ones too, I have a wonderful therapist. Quote:
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Sep 28, 2008, 01:33 AM
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I'm so glad ya'll shared all of that with me. Makes me happy to know i'm not the only one. I felt the odd one out. Ya'll have T's, pdoc's, etc that are just as special as mine. We are so lucky.
((((((((((to everyone)))))))))) You made my day. chal |
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