Come on, T

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sorry you're having such a hard time and missing your t and getting flack instead of support. i hope he calls you pronto but i also think the phone is in his dog's stomach ringing away. maybe you can picture t trapped in the dog's stomach as well desperately trying to get a call out but with no connection. my new dog - he's known as "the boodle" a cross between a bishon and a minipoodle - chews everything in sight as well.

I understand a helpful suggested about connecting to others. However, I don't need to be told "be nice to your husband." My husband and I are currently at a really good place in our relationship, thanks to all the hard work we have been doing in marriage therapy-- and this is like the 2nd time in my posts this week that someone has insinuated something about my relationship, which would be completely ridiculous because all I have posted is that my husband and I have had marital problems at times.

For those who are concerned that I am not channeling my energy properly-- yesterday H and I spent the entire day together at the New Year's Day parade, eating out for lunch and dinner, and we had a lovely night. The day before, I went to dinner with one of my friends from my school cohort. So, yeah... these are real connections, but they are all different types of connections.

Anyway, I'm just about past the point in which I feel angry at T. Right about now, I feel really worried about him. Earlier in the evening, I called his cell phone, which was on (it goes straight to voicemail when it's off), and there was no answer. This is just really unlike him, especially when he made the statement that he would be waiting/expecting to hear from me later in the week.

I hope he is ok, I'm a little scared, I know T is not my dad, but people go away....

I rang my T once and it just rang out - I immediately catastrophised he always has voicemail.... turned out he had forgotten to switch the voicmail thingy on (sorry not very Mobile literate ) and he hadnt heard the phone ring in his briefcase because it was on silent! probably what he would have liked to put me on too! LOL

Hang in there Pinksoil, I hope he gets back to you soon P7

I agree with Pink,
It is normal to have a totally different relationship with your T than it is to have with others. It's in a whole other realm itself, where you could share anything, your deepest fears ect. and not be ridiculed or rejected.

In fact, my school counselor, whom by the way has been counseling for years, says that she sees her own T as times to share things that she could never share with her husband or others. I don't think it's irrational for someone to have a seperate bond with their T.

Hangingon

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Hang in there okay? I know it is really hard right now.

Take care.

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I hope you've heard from him and you're feeling relieved

This is a scary place to be. I've been there.

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