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Jan 24, 2009, 09:12 AM
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i have T in about an hour but i actually don't feel like going. i feel like if i don't go i'll regret it, but what if i do go and its blah cause i don't feel like talking about anything? please help me decide....i have an hourrrr
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Jan 24, 2009, 09:17 AM
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Krazibean, I would go! Just going helps you connect. Even if you don't get into deep stuff. Also my T would be mad if I called and cancelled just because I didn't feel like going. She say's we can talk about why you don't feel like comming. You like your T so go!
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Jan 24, 2009, 09:56 AM
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my t always tells me this to help me decide:
if i am green and/or dying then stay home. if i am just not wanting to come because i feel lazy or don't want to talk then i should come and we'll both be lazy together. maybe its guilt or something but i always end up going except for those times that i was green or actually dying. |
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#4
Jan 24, 2009, 07:23 PM
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Did you go, krazibean? How did it go?
I think it is really inconsiderate to cancel an appointment with only one hour's notice, so maybe if this happens again, even if you don't want to go, just do it out of respect for your T and her time. Plus, if you cancel with so little notice, don't you have to pay for the session anyway? It's 24 hours notice with my T. That always helps keep me going because, if nothing else, I like to get good value for my money.
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Jan 24, 2009, 07:26 PM
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I hope everything went ok krazibean - I find its the times i dont want to go that i generally make the most progress - take care P7
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts  its how many times you get back up!   (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture  )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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Jan 24, 2009, 07:31 PM
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(((Krazibean)))
I had T today tooo!! I didnt want to go, but I was pleasantly surprised at how it went I hope everything worked out well today...aka I hope you saw T today--LLT 
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#7
Jan 24, 2009, 07:51 PM
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glad things went well for you LLT
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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#8
Jan 25, 2009, 01:12 AM
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i did end up going and we ended up having a very connected talk. i hate leaving her when i feel that connected, so that part was hard. She makes me feel so safe and comforted and i wish i had that outside of session. sigh, i just have to wait until tuesday.
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Jan 25, 2009, 01:42 AM
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((((((((((((((((Krazibean))))))))))))))) I'm glad you decided to go and had such a connected session. Kudos to you
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The patient's job is to repeat in the therapy all the stuff that has been disastrous before. The T's job is to not let it happen, but to point out how it is happening. 
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Jan 25, 2009, 06:56 AM
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by now you will have gone - or not - you doing OK?
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Jan 25, 2009, 07:51 AM
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Yay for connection!!! I hope you can hang on to that until Tuesday
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#12
Jan 25, 2009, 03:50 PM
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(((((((krazibean)))))))
Glad it went well! Getting that connection is so nice!
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Jan 25, 2009, 05:18 PM
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that's great! well done for going!
 I hope your next session is just as good.
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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#14
Jan 25, 2009, 05:43 PM
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Im glad you had a good session YAAAY! |
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