I posted something on the affirmations board, but then I realized that the people I want to reach are probably reading here on THIS board, so I will post it here instead.

I am feeling REALLY BAD right now, sad because I am worried that I am hurting instead of helping on this board. I truly, truly, TRULY want to be able to reach out and help people, because I care a lot about the people on this board. I just feel like I haven't been doing a very good job lately, and am causing more problems than anything.

DO NOT FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE TO REPLY TO THIS, PLEASE. I really am not asking for replies here. I just wanted to apologize and let people know that I am rethinking how and what I post and I will try to do better in the future. I promise.

I apologize if I have caused any problems or pain for anyone. I am going to try to do better.

No replies needed! (really)

(((((((((((((((((((PC))))))))))))))))))

[lifelesstraveled]

((((EM)))))

I know you said no replies, but I am going to reply.

You have been nothing but a WONDERFUL source of encouragement for not just me, but EVERYONE on this board.

I can't speak for everyone else, BUT for me (being so new to therapy still), you have responded too all my threads with nothing but sincereity(sp) and believe it or not your words gave me the little bit of strength or pick up that I needed. Esp now, when you said that it's okay to be upset over my most recent break up and that I seek out and get the support that I need from T, someone who really cares (though I have a silly notion that Ts get paid to care, but thats a topic for another thread)

Please don't feel like you are not helping anyone here. You are a TREMENDOUS help. Dont feel like you are hurting anyone. I haven't read a single post from you that has meant any harm to anyone. Your posts are warm and completely understanding.

Earthmama, please don't feel bad. I dont want you to feel bad for anything, esp b/c you havent done anything to feel bad or upset or sad about.

Please be easy on yourself okay?

[pachyderm]

Originally Posted by earthmama

I apologize if I have caused any problems or pain for anyone. I am going to try to do better.

Strange to see this; I suppose I can't speak for others, but I can't think of a single thing you have posted that has caused me any pain or problems.

[coconut64]

(((((((((((((((MB)))))))))))) where is this coming from????????????

I only see you being a source of support for everyone here, as well as share your own heartbrakes. Plus you know how much you have helped me. Please don't go away, I need you.

[Capp]

((EM))

No apology is necessary because you did nothing wrong. Period.
Jme, but many of us go through spells of feeling the same way. Perhaps it's because we feel we should be giving perfectly wonderful/wise advice, and many times we do.
Sometimes we don't...it doesn't make us bad, it means we are human.

I hope you aren't feeling this way because of something someone said to you, either on a forum or via PM.

Be kind to yourself, EM. As kind as you would be to us if we were feeling this way...

Peace,
Cap

[KUREHA]

You're awesome
You have no reason to apologize

Take Care

[ECHOES]

[searchingmysoul]

Earthmama-

You are a truly gentle, kind, thoughtful, honest and without malice.

I you have not contributed anything less than the tender spirit that you are. I can only speak for myself but I feel that you have nothing to apologize for.



Take care,
Searcing

[darkrunner]

((((((((((((((((earthmama))))))))))))))))))))

I completely agree with everything everyone else has said.
You are such a sweet person.

You are willing to share personal things to empathize and relate to others, and you honestly share your experiences and insights.....all to help others through their difficulties.
From your posts, it is obvious what a truly caring, precious soul you are.

Sending tons of hugs......
and wishing you some peace...

[del12]

Dear Earthmama

I agree with everyne else. You have been a great support to me and I appreciate you. Thank you for all your insight.

((((((((((((earthmama))))))))))))

i think you're the best earthmama. i love how you share the good and the bad. i admire your perseverance to find healing no matter how difficult things get. you are truly an inspiration.

((((((((((((((((earthmama))))))))))))))))))))
you are such a kind and caring person.......
what every one else said ((you wonderful))
((((you matter ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((PC Friends)))))))))))))))))))))))))

I promise I wasn't fishing for replies....when I said I didn't need replies, it was like when I call t and say I don't need a reply

BUT...you are all so kind and have made my heart feel warm and my soul feel better.
Thank you ALL for being so caring.

So much kindness here!!

so much kindness with you ....thats why we all replyed
((your worth it))))))))))))))))))))))))

[hangingon]

Earthmama
I was not offended at all, I like hearing your stories.

hangingon

[Simcha]

Sam like little Earthy-mama-san! Sam no hurt by mama-san. Sam LIKE Earthy-mama-san! Sam give Earthy hugs!

((((((((((((((((((((((((((EARTHY)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[sittingatwatersedge]

Originally Posted by pachyderm

Strange to see this. [...] can't speak for others, but I can't think of a single thing you have posted that has caused me any pain or problems.

Same here! On the contrary to causing anyone pain, I see again and again how you have shared such remarkable insight along with your instinctual kindness. Sometimes, when I see your post encouraging someone, i don;t even bother to write because you've said it all.

as a friend of mine is fond of saying, "Don't get yer hair shirt on." You are fine, EM, we love you !

[sunrise]

EM, I like hearing your stories. I think I even learn about myself by reading what you have to say. Keep posting. Please.

[tulips30]

{{{{earthmama}}}} I had to comment on your post. I truly see you as one of the kindest and most gentle people here. I can't imagine why you would feel like you do. But, I want you to know that you have touched my life

tulips

[peaches100]

Hi Earthmama,

I'm late reading this but wanted to chime in with everyone else and say that your input on the board is valuable and helps tremendously! I see you as a big asset here. Your comments always come across to me as compassionate and well meaning.

We can't take responsibility for how each and every person who reads our posts reacts emotionally to what we've said. We are all so different, and are triggered by different things. A comment that might help one person may trigger another. We cannot always know this.

But what I think we all know is that, as individuals and collectively, we are here on the board because he have a caring heart, and our motives and intentions are to encourage and help one another! None of us are perfect or can say exactly the right thing at the right time. We just do our best to hear, understand, and respond from our hearts in the best way we know how to do. That's all we can expect from ourselves or each other.

You are appreciated, and I am glad you are here.

[mixedup_emotions]

((((((Earthmama)))))))

I have only been a part of this community for a short time, and you have already made a positive impression on my life.

I don't know what triggered you posting this, but always know that we are all human and things are not always roses and smiles....and there are times when we can be strong and supportive of others....and other times when we are the ones that need the support and someone to be strong for us...

I hope you're feeling better now and know that you are cherished here.



Ria