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#26
Apr 05, 2009, 10:46 AM
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Lotus flowers, not weeds pachy...flowers :-)
Echoes... I like your reflection. I think it take a special person to help others find and see themselves. Treehouse..I did the same thing yesterday with my emails. I can't say I'm not getting my moneys worth--thats for sure. |
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Apr 05, 2009, 11:00 AM
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Apr 05, 2009, 12:36 PM
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 Lots of great stuff in this thread...
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Apr 05, 2009, 02:51 PM
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The thing about flowers is that they can very vulnerable to lots of stuff. Now weeds, they are tough little suckers!
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Apr 05, 2009, 02:53 PM
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Remember JellyFluff... Be the willow!
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Apr 06, 2009, 11:51 AM
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Structure is important. I visualize it as hanging onto a safe structure while you lean out a bit to experience and learn. That safe space is important. This is what little children do with healthy attachment to their parents. They attach to that base of safety and structure and lean out a bit to explore and grow. You are doing good work Chaotic!
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Apr 06, 2009, 06:56 PM
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Apr 07, 2009, 07:31 AM
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Now if thou would'st When all have given him o'er From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover -- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631 |
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Apr 07, 2009, 11:31 AM
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What triggered the noise Chaotic? Or what is trying to surface?
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Apr 07, 2009, 04:27 PM
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Fear of being different, fear of rejection, fear of hurt or offending someone....
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Apr 08, 2009, 10:47 AM
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Do you understand where they come from and why?
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Apr 08, 2009, 01:00 PM
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Well... I know my fear of hurting some was accurate. My H found two of my drawing this week. He is very hurt, and I really regret putting what was in my head down on paper. The fact that I never intended to share it with ANYONE is irrelevant. Obviously I have trouble containing the collateral damage my thoughts can cause. Somethings should just be left in the head.
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Apr 09, 2009, 12:39 PM
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All of our fears are accurate. They all come from somewhere.
I'm sorry about what happened with your husband. The stuff in your head deserves to come out, though! When I was getting all my stuff out I let some stuff out to my husband in a very hurtful way. He was very hurt and angry. I was sorry how it came out but I knew that it had to come out and I was glad that it did. We worked through it so it turned out fine. Getting this stuff out, this stuff that stood between us, brought us closer. We are not made of glass. We all can survive. I can blurt things out. I am not that refined, oh well!
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