I dont want to lose my bf bc of his roommates drug habbits

I've started a new relationship with a great guy. Things are great between us no complaints but the problems lies with his roommates who are his sister and her boyfriend. They smoke and sell weed. I've told my bf that if I smell that stuff in his home then I'm not going to stay and if it continues to be a regular thing then I'm going to stop coming over. He also hates his roommates actions but he's in a tough spot on how to handle the situation. Him and I have something really good going on and I don't want to end a relationship based on someone else behavior but I just don't know how to handle that type of drug dealing and smoking stuff. I cried in my bf's arms and said I dont want to lose him but at the same time I am so uncomfortable to be around drugs. I told him that I'm willing to stick it out with him and if that takes us to do outside things then thats how its going have to be but know thats only a temporary solution. Does anyone have any input on this? Please respond because it is such a emotional thing because I really care for my him and the future of our relationship.

If its bugging you this much then why not just stay away from his place ? Can he go to yours ?

how long have you guys been dating? really there isn't anything you CAN do short of calling the cops and busting them. and i'm pretty sure if you did that there would be hell to pay from several people. if it bothers you then don't hang around there. and if he hates it like he says he does then he probably doesn't want to be there either. and he's not the one doing it so it really shouldn't be something to end your relationship over. if you really want it to last then you need to find a way around it. ending a relationship over someone else's actions isn't a very good strategy.

whenever i'm in a situation like that i try to think of WHY it bothers me. I can't control others' actions so why would I let it bother me? I think you need to get to the root of why you're so uncomfortable around something that's pretty common and accepted just about everywhere. and is becoming more and more legal. pot isn't something you can avoid and will eventually be legal in the u.s. so you should probably learn how to get over being uncomfortable around that drug because it's virtually everywhere and will be legal before you know it.

Sorry this is a little late. I would NOT be at that house at all. People who have a lot of traffic coming and going is not good. If your boyfriend lives there he should also get out. All it's going to take is for someone to get mad, and here comes the cops. If you are there if the cops come then you could get a charge to. This is what you should ask yourself. Do I want a boyfriend, or do I want to put myself in a situation where I have a felony, and ruin some good things that I can have in my life? Trust me on this. Anyone who plays around with drugs will get caught, especially if they sell drugs. Every time you walk into that house your taking a chance.