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#1
Jun 02, 2009, 12:46 PM
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Scenario: You marry your soul mate, you have a wonderful life together for a decade or more. You have always been compatible on every level and when you make love your souls become one. You are best friends; you are able to resolve ANY difficulty together as partners. Then one day that all changes and your love won't talk or try to resolve the issue(s). The two of you remain living together due to finances; you can't move out because you have no money or no job. Even though you are "done" you continue to have sex; it still feels the same as it always did.
Question: Is this a sexual compatibility only?
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Jun 02, 2009, 01:03 PM
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Is it only one issue? Can you live with that issue unresolved? Is the rest of your life good enough to outweigh this issue?
I hung on for 12 yrs and my soul mate came back to me. For a long time I felt that all we had was sexual compatibility. I'm still not positive it's unconditional love on his part, but what I have is more than good enough. 
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Jun 02, 2009, 01:14 PM
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I believe we can resolve the outstanding issue but he won't even entertain trying... the issue is I don't have a job, no income. I had a nervous breakdown almost 3 years ago and have developed severe anxiety and fear of the outside world...
Thank you for the words of encouragement! 
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Jun 02, 2009, 09:16 PM
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In my opinion this is not sexual compatability, but rather great sex. True sexual compatability in my opinion is a conection on all levels not just during sex.
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