[BamaSurvivor]

I have another thread in here about me and an ex boyfriend, Jason, starting to date again... Well, we went on our date lastnight and we were having so much fun I didn't want the night to end. He was tired, but I kept insisting he not leave yet. Bad move. When he finally did leave, he had a wreck on his way home from falling asleep at the wheel and it's my fault for not letting him leave to begin with. I feel so bad now and fear he's going to hate me. That car was his baby, he's worked so hard for it and all he has is liability insurance so it won't fix his car.
On top of that, by the time he called for me and my dad to come help, I had already taken my sleeping medication and was half out of it when we got there. So not only did I help cause his wreck, I seemed insensitive to the situation because my meds. *sigh* I feel so bad.

i'm sorry this happened.....i suggest being supportive and if he's upset with you, i'm sure he'll tell you.....good luck. pat

[BamaSurvivor]

I'm glad he's ok... When we got there, I brought myself to enough to go give him a hug and make sure he was alright. He hasn't called me since this happened. That happened Friday night, it's Sunday now. I hope he can forgive me.

[jmo531]

Oh Bama... I am so sorry this haapened. I know it would be easier to blame yourself for this incident but from what you wrote I do not believe it is your fault. I think it was an accident. Thats all, nothing more. I'm sure he doesnt hate you. You guys just found eachother again. Just be there for him and support him through this. The fact that he hasnt called may have nothing to do with you at all. he could be sore and resting. maybe give him a call to check up on him.

Keep us posted.

[BamaSurvivor]

I dunno why my mind works like this... Blaming myself until I've told differently, I hate that.

I want to call him but we've both decided it's best if he call me first and I call right back (area calling) because his mom drinks from the time she wakes up until she passes out and she's a mean drunk. We don't want her picking up and being rude. I'm hoping he'll call today.

[BamaSurvivor]

Ok, so he called... lol Yes, I had a big sigh of relief. :P

He was joking around and said, "it's your fault!" and I said, "Nah uh" and of course he said it was and said I owe him... Me, being gulible, asked what I owed him and he said, "You know what you owe me." LMAO! He's so silly.

He said his neck is still sore from the wreck, but the good news is the guy who's fixing his car needed parts for a porshe (sp?) and some other car, both of which Jason happens to have... So they are just going to exchange and he's gonna fix it. YAY!

[shakes]

Bama,
That is good. I am so happy that everything worked out for you. The good guys would never blame anyone else for what happened. You should not blame yourself. He is a grown man who made his own decision to stay later.
I am so glad that he was not seriously injured though.

Jessica

[BamaSurvivor]

Yeah, he was mopping around again today about the car and I told him at least he wasnt seriously hurt. He did say that if it took that wreck happening for him to be able to spend that one whole day with me, it was worth it. So that was really sweet. *blush* He says the sweetest things sometimes. tehehe

I think he's really changed from the last time we were together. He has a whole different outlook on life and treats me so much better. I guess people can change if they really want to, even if it only took 9 months.