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Old Jun 22, 2009, 07:21 AM
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No biological family. This is just a pity party, feel free to ignore.
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Old Jun 22, 2009, 07:34 AM
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Fuzz. i have no bio family either. But ive made my own.

I would fly to where you are (or drive) if you needed somebody. Just say the word.

we are family here....

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Old Jun 22, 2009, 12:54 PM
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Fuzzy, pity parties can be very... liberating. If you do them right. There's nothing wrong with feeling bad that you have no biological family and grieve about that at times. I would too.

I can imagine how isolating it must feel at times to know you have no biological family. And I am truly sorry for you. But I often wish I didn't have any biological family, for all that's happened and for how difficult and hurting it is for me now.
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than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Old Jun 22, 2009, 12:59 PM
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as close to any family that l have hunny.......always here for you

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Old Jun 22, 2009, 04:48 PM
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(((Fuzzy))) I'm sorry that you have no biological family members but how wonderful is it that the loved ones in your life are there because of who YOU are, not because of some accident of birth?
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Old Jun 23, 2009, 12:12 PM
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fuzzy i just wanted to let u know i consider u part of my family and im always here for u
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Old Jun 23, 2009, 12:56 PM
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But you're my sister!! ((((((((((((((((((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))))))))))
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Old Jun 23, 2009, 01:47 PM
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((((((Fuzzy))))))))

biological families aren't all they're made to be....
the Waltons don't exist nor do the great perfect Thanksgiving and Christmas family pictures that we think should be our family.....
Families of origin can leave much to be desired....
But even with that in mind, having no one to call "family" is a sad place.
Join mine, there is always room at the table....
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 06:08 AM
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 09:53 AM
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 04:54 PM
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(((FUZZY))). I wish that I had some words of wisdom for you at this time. The only thing I can say is that you are a very concerned person for others, and that anyone that calls you a friend is gaining an insight in life that remains, and that may be as close to family as someone gets. Take care. (((FUZZY))). Soidhonia
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 05:15 PM
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Hun!!, we all love you, and you have a big fam here.

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No biological family. This is just a pity party, feel free to ignore.
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 06:12 PM
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I cannot imagine what you have been through. I know nothing can ever repair that hungry hole you must have by never experiencing a biological family. I can tell you not to miss the bonds that you will never know, but that's not an answer.

I want you to continue growing, learning and loving in your life. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. Living life and finding/creating your own family and getting your needs met as much as one can. I want you to know all kinds of love. And you can! You will.

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Old Jun 25, 2009, 06:50 PM
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Fuzzzy... i consider you my "family".. even though we do not talk much anymore, because Im too busy chasing Jeremy hell west and crooked.

I hope that I didn't trigger you with my news.. If i did, i want you to know - I still consider my "friend family" more important than any of them. And i know you have a large "friend family" here. I think I am definetly closer to my friend family than any real family I have.

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Old Jun 26, 2009, 10:32 AM
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Fuzzy,

What would you like to do with a biological family Fuzzy? You mean like children? or family of origin? I'm a bit confused but that is a regular occurance, so not so surprising. Any chance you can be a 'Big Sister' for now? Of course, they'd all want Fuzzy Bear for a big sister so you may have to go, in cogneto, as your irl person. Is that statement coming out all wrong? Guess if they knew what a lovely bear you are all the little sisters would want you, is what I mean.
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Old Jun 30, 2009, 01:53 PM
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I perfer to choose who I want to be with....rather than the "family" I'm stuck with. I don't visit them too often...I wanted Donna Reed and Father Knows Best...and I got two selfish drunks that I call mom and dad.

Still God wants us to love everyone...so I love them from a distance.

You know Fuzzy...I always liked you....I like my PC family...they and you are always here when I need support. Take care and have a grrrrrrrrreat day!
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