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#1
Aug 14, 2009, 11:39 AM
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Iv been with my fiance 2yrs i love him but i cant stay with him much longer... he doesnt support me, he twists things i say, if i try to talk to him about something that upsets me he dont listen, and he always trys to winde me up about other woman, and everything has to go his way... iv packed up smoking just 2 days ago and hes making it difficult. what do i do when i know the man i love is not the one for me?
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Aug 14, 2009, 12:05 PM
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Hello, Read your public profile and see that you recently suffered the loss of a parent. Were you and your fiance' getting along before this loss? Bereavement can really cause a lot of stress in relationships for a very long time. Is there anyone who you can talk to, like a therapist or anyone, before you make a decision to end this relationship? Just a thought. 
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 Vickie
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#3
Aug 14, 2009, 12:09 PM
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we were better then we are now but during my dads illness my fella promised me he would be there for me and he loved me but i dont think he has any idea how to show love.. iv had two therapists and been on prozac its not helped.. id send hugs back but my phone dont let me (on mobile net)
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Aug 15, 2009, 01:41 AM
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What was he like at the beginning for you two? Is this a change in his behavior or have you become more enlightened? The answers could help us help u better. But no matter how things turn out...we will be here for you. This place has never failed me.
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Aug 15, 2009, 03:05 AM
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I dont even know if its more me i know he never listens when im upset ect.. but i cant work out how a man can tell me he loves me and wants to marry me then treat me like im nothing... im so confused and upset because i love him but i dont think i can stay with him.. i need to let go but i just cant.
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#6
Aug 15, 2009, 06:30 AM
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tishtosh
 I've been there and I know it's hard. But if you make a break now, it'll hurt, but the hurting goes away and you eventually feel impowered by it. Don't let anyone treat you like your nothing. Some men have a way of doing that. Good Luck!
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