Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Aug 26, 2009, 09:24 PM
FeelingHopeful's Avatar
FeelingHopeful FeelingHopeful is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2009
Location: USA
Posts: 1,223
Yesterday I had such a Great Day . Got To See A Dear Friend. Ok The Guy I have a crush on lol. Today I feel down . What the heck is wrong with me?

advertisement
  #2  
Old Aug 26, 2009, 11:46 PM
FeelingHopeful's Avatar
FeelingHopeful FeelingHopeful is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2009
Location: USA
Posts: 1,223
He is back with his gf so Im happy for him but Sad for me. How come other people always get the great guys??
  #3  
Old Aug 27, 2009, 09:30 AM
VickiesPath's Avatar
VickiesPath VickiesPath is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Jul 2009
Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Posts: 2,779
One day soon, YOU are going to be one of the "other people" who get the great guys. Mark my words! It's pure statistics.
__________________
Great Day Yesterday, Why Today Do I feel Down?Vickie
  #4  
Old Aug 27, 2009, 10:05 AM
bluebird2 bluebird2 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Aug 2009
Posts: 26
Sometimes after something good, we feel down. It's a natural mood cycle.
  #5  
Old Aug 27, 2009, 11:02 AM
marjan's Avatar
marjan marjan is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Dec 2007
Location: Los Angeles
Posts: 1,156
Quote:
Originally Posted by FeelingSad View Post
Yesterday I had such a Great Day . Got To See A Dear Friend. Ok The Guy I have a crush on lol. Today I feel down . What the heck is wrong with me?
You were feeling good yesterday, because you were with him....but today, you know he's with somebody else....this is an attachment...the outsource that controls you to feel happy or sad....
Just try not to think about him....or if he comes to your mind, just let it go...direct your thoughts to something else....then this will be a regular practice for you and your brain will get trained and you will learn to not think about him and happiness that comes with attachments....because that's not a true happiness....

take care
Marjan
  #6  
Old Aug 27, 2009, 11:05 AM
FeelingHopeful's Avatar
FeelingHopeful FeelingHopeful is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2009
Location: USA
Posts: 1,223
Thanks guys. Im not sure if he is happy or not. I hope so but i worry. I feel heartbroken and sometimes its so hard on my heart. I realize i cant change things but learning to deal is tough. I dont and wont be with anyone else. just dealing is my goal.
  #7  
Old Aug 27, 2009, 01:35 PM
marjan's Avatar
marjan marjan is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Dec 2007
Location: Los Angeles
Posts: 1,156
Quote:
Originally Posted by FeelingSad View Post
Thanks guys. Im not sure if he is happy or not. I hope so but i worry. I feel heartbroken and sometimes its so hard on my heart. I realize i cant change things but learning to deal is tough. I dont and wont be with anyone else. just dealing is my goal.

keep in your mind that healing process need time and effort....if you stay in touch with him, that makes it difficult to heal....love yourself and value yourself, so stay away from him and wish him love....as less as you know about his day to day life, you will heal faster....I did it, you can do it too...
cut loose all the tights with him....
My friend, this is the fact that he has moved on and he is with somebody else...He's not thinking about you...he wants to spend time with somebody else....so, why are you hurting yourself? stay away from him and places that he goes....then when you healed and moved on, you can see him again....
good luck
Marjan
  #8  
Old Aug 27, 2009, 04:06 PM
FeelingHopeful's Avatar
FeelingHopeful FeelingHopeful is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2009
Location: USA
Posts: 1,223
I will be in contact with him. He is friends with my family. Best Friends with my brother. Still hangs out at my home. He is with someone else yes but theres more to that than what o say on here. Which o wont say. I do wish him well and he does care about me. We check in with each other. Im just upset because of maybe not being able to hang out aw much. appreciate the support. this is a complicated situation that since i cant explain on here prob makes no sense to anyone. Thanks for your love.
Reply
Views: 465

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 12:46 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.