[aria83]

here's how I feel about this person. I'm confused. what do ya's think?

I met him on plenty of fish dot com. We talked on the phone a few times and we met for the first time yesterday.
I think he's cute and nice and I'm really physically attracted to him. I just...he tried to hold my hand. And I wouldn't let him. So on the phone last night I asked him if he was looking for a fling and he said no. He's "actually really serious about me" and "really interested in me." I thought his answer was weird because we don't know each other. How can you be serious about someone you just met? He also repeated that in a row, like 5 times. Which I thought was odd too. It made me wonder if he was lying...I don't know I don't think he is lying I just...I like his personality, I'm really attracted to him, but something isn't *there* like...I just feel like he is so foreign to me. I don't want to date someone for the sake of just being with someone. It's just...I really want to...make out with him lol.

if anyone has any insight, wisdom, or advice, please say. thanks.

[jerrymichele]

I think that he was just trying to tell you that he isn't looking for just sex, and that he wants a relationship. I think he is attracted to you. I think that it's cute that he tried to hold your hand. And if you want to makeout just go up and kiss him. lol There might be a lot of sparks there.

[babyfairyfifi]

I'd suggest you give it a go, at least give the bloke chance to get to know you , and you to get to know him.

Maybe try not to over analyse at first? Sometimes things aren't as complicated as they seem...

Have fun, be friends and take it from there. Even if you feel you want to just have a fling, what's the harm in that? Just make sure you are both on the same page, so to speak.

Take care, and good luck.

[aria83]

I wonder if it's wrong to do sexual things with someone if you are honestly not sure where the relationship is going...

[aria83]

Originally Posted by babyfairyfifi

I'd suggest you give it a go, at least give the bloke chance to get to know you , and you to get to know him.

Maybe try not to over analyse at first? Sometimes things aren't as complicated as they seem...

Have fun, be friends and take it from there. Even if you feel you want to just have a fling, what's the harm in that? Just make sure you are both on the same page, so to speak.

Take care, and good luck.

btw, thanks for the replies jerrymichele and babyfairyfifi.

[jerrymichele]

If you just go up and kiss him you might know the answer. lol

[wileycoyte]

I think to take it real slow sexually and you will find we could all use another friend ....if it grows to more aren't you the lucky one....