[Irine]

I just wonder if ALL THE TIME if a man asks a woman if she has a boyfriend does it always mean that he is interested in her! well romatically, i mean

Does it?

[VickiesPath]

It depends on who is asking. If it is someone who you are sort of flirting with, then yes, maybe it means he is interested. If it is an older man or someone other than someone you would date, maybe they are asking to see if you are available for them to suggest someone you should date. It just all depends upon who is asking.

You could develop a standard answer such as, "Not currently, but I do date on occasion" or something like that, whatever would be a customary, polite response.

[Irine]

Thanks Vickie
Well someone on Myspace. "Your eyes are enchanting"..etc....i assume...eh..why isn`t it..

I have had a few questions asked of me lately that had me later wondering what was up.

One was . "where do you live?" " " you don't have to say exactly where"

I anwered near the University and did not respond . And where do you live.? because I was a deer in headlights.

I'm not used to having questions asked of me by the opposite sex .They also asked me why I didn't drink

and when will I see you again.

that was even more confusing .

I just spoke with the man all of ten minutes. In the ten minutes I found out they go to these art opening to get the free wine .. That closed up a few doors on my end.. His honesty had me wondering if he was for real . Especailly when he came over to the table compalining that the wine was not on ice as he crambed it into the container that held the ice that was used to fll my sparling water with. by some other man.

LOL LOL OLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!! how funny!!!!!

I could have sworn I saw the glint of gold on his left hand. thinking back .

I tend to be in a PSTD kind of mode when Im in such situations .Especialy when they hit me as soon as I walk in a room. which doesn't happen that often,

What came to me later was . to respond to such quetions like your's and mine with .

" why do you want to know? "

or " Do you mind my asking why you are wanting to know this information? "

that will hopefully clarify where they are coming from and one can choose to respond or not respond and not spend hours thinking ,. Now why did they ask that and what did they mean by that.

For the next time .

the last time I asked why they wanted to take me out for cofee what thier intentions were .

They said they thought we could have a "fling"

so be prepared....

or maybe .. they need to be prepared.


Patricia

[Irine]

haha you are attractive...i assume. can understand you :-)
thank you