[bridgie]

So my boy friend and I have known each other for 9 months we've been dating officially 4. I love him. He says he loves me. Well I feel that in two years we will be getting married and prior to that we will have a child. Yea I know shild before marriage not the way you may want to do it but the way I want to do it. Well my boyfriend says he will never wear a suit or a tux and I said yes in 2 years I'll see you in one. He askes me what for and I don't tell him its for our wedding. I just say I know I will see you in one. And then it why why do you think so. I don't want to tell him I have our lives planned out that far ahead. Especially when anythig cld happen btwn then and now. At least then I know it ended bcz it was supposed to not bcz I freaked him out about having a future together.

[bebop]

even hinting like that can scare men away. personally 4 months is not long enough to know if that is what you will want in 2 years. give it time. if it is meant to be it will happen.