[bridgie]

So I was friends with my boyfriend since last february and we bacame a cpl in august. About 4 months now. When we first talked everything was great we have the same interests and have so much in common. Well now that we've been seeing each other things have been going great minus a few bumps in the road nothing major. I think we both want to go the same direction as in gt married have 1 baby and have a loving fanily. Well I'm starting to dream of weddings and even rubbing my belly as if I was pregnant. I'm concerned I'm getting attached to ideals when I know the posibikity is there but nothing is concrete and because I'm already having these strong feelings I'm a ltl worried I may do or say something that will throw my guy for a loop even though I know he loves me I don't want to scare him with my fantasizing

[jerrymichele]

If you are young, you have plenty of time to wait for marriage and kids. Being married is hard work, and so is raising a child. For right now, because your relationship is fairly new, I would just live in the moment. IMO it's best to know a person inside and out before you marry them.

[ACanthony1984]

I agree with Jerry. You need to live in the moment!!!!!! That's awesome you found someone you connect with. Even more awesome that the person you met looks to be the person you want to spend the rest of your life with! However, if you worry too much about the future, that will certainly take away from the present moments you have with him. Don't worry about the future (marriage, babies, where to live, etc). The worrying is just something you are creating yourself that will take away from the good times you are having. Take a deep breath and enjoy the present.

[bridgie]

Thanks I'm trying to take it one day at a time. My anxiety is making it hard plus I'm a planner and I have a hard time not being anxious when I can't actually plan. I don't know it strange

[jerrymichele]

I can relate to this. I have anxiety also. A good cardio workout is really good for anxiety.