[daniibby17]

Me and my boyfriend started dating 2 years ago in february. I'm 18 and he's 21. We had a split a few months ago for 3 months bcuz I had started talking to another guy that treated me better than he did. But I realized I loved my bf and I couldn't leave him, then he left me! We got back together 2 months ago and we have been fighting nonstop. This is how it was for a while before we broke up and its worse now. I'm scared I'm going to lose him, but I'm always giving him ultimatums bcuz I want him to want to be with me. I know its wrong, but I can't help it. Our relationship used to be so perfect. What can I do to get it back asap?!

[NuckingFutz]

what about the other guy who treated you better. Bet you would be a happier couple if you kept your heart open. Unless you would fight and yell with the man you claim to love...

[salukigirl]

Honestly....you're way too young to be dealing with that crap. Love is an action, yelling and screaming is not loving. You may feel like its love because you started dating when you were 16 but seriously, it sounds like you two are just wrong for each other. Get out now before you look back and its been 10 years and you can't leave. It may sound harsh but I've been there and thought it was love and it wasn't. It was 2 people, too insecure to be alone, fighting constantly. Learn how to love yourself first, only then can you truly love someone else.

[daniibby17]

Originally Posted by NuckingFutz

what about the other guy who treated you better. Bet you would be a happier couple if you kept your heart open. Unless you would fight and yell with the man you claim to love...

The other guy and I had become just friends and now we don't talk because I wouldn't be with him. I had tried to be with someone else when we had our split but I always talked about him and couldn't be happy with anyone else bcuz it wasn't him..