[singfreejennn]

I have a marrige that is like riding a roller coaster. Up down Up down get the picture one day he is the man I love, the next day he is some other person I can not even look at or sit in the same room with. I ve been talking to him about it for along time and it always go's back to the same pattern. I try so hard to be attracted to him but for some reason he always seems to say or do the wrong thing and then my mood just goes away. I am at my pick of sexualty desire right know and he just is not making it happen, not sure what else I can do. Sex has never been a big thing to me but like I said something in body is changing and I just cant not seem to get enough.

[jerrymichele]

Hi welcome to pc.
I think maybe marriage therapy might help you. I have also heard that women around 37 and up hit the height of needing more sex. The only thing that I can tell you is the therapy, and tell him that your not getting your needs meet.

[phoenix47baby]

Welcome to PC/ I agree, marrriage, family therapy might do the trick. It's a lot of work, but you maybe able to get to the bottom of what is bothering your husband and why he is turned off sexually. It is worth a try to save a marriage. Good Luck.