[sally_d]

she's talking to. All she ever does is talk about him and what the hell he's been doing and his family. Seriously, I dont give a crap about the guy. It freakin annoys me everytime I get on the phone with her. I'm fixing to throw my best friend out of my life. I've had to hear about this idiot for 2 weeks now.

My ex hubby and I decided to do LC for a while. Which is fine bc i asked for it. One thing that annoys me about him is that he keeps going back and fourth with this so called friendship. I've tried to cut this moran out of my life he still wants friendship. I've talked to him so many time about reconciling he's not wanting to do that. I've cried, begged, pleaded and did everything that i could think off he's stone cold. Its like nothing gets through to him. I've asked him if he was dating anyone he say's no but he is talking to other people. What the hell. Then why the hell does he want me around for? Why, cant he just leave me the hell alone and get the hell out of my life? I yelled at him once before to get the hell out of my life he's still around.

I'm frustrated. I just want these 2 morans out of my life. I dont want anyone around me anymore. I just want to be left alone for good. And deal with my issue's until I get passed them. I hate these 2. Really do.

Perhaps you may tell your friend to change the subject. If she will not listen to you, tell her you have to go and hang up. If she persists, ask her not to call.

If you do not want to talk to your ex, don't.

Good luck.

[NuckingFutz]

I can relate to what you said. It is like you want some time to heal, maybe even a friend to listen to you. But when your ex or your friend call they brush your needs aside and dump their issues on you. Have i got it right?

[marjan]

cut her loose from your life....easy!
I have a friend who constantly nagging and talking about this guy that she dated 5 years ago for couple of months and the guy is still in the circle of friends....first I was okay and I was comforting her, but then I found out, she's so obsess and crazy....the guy made it clear that he wants to stay friend and doesn't do anything....and she keeps talking about him...oh...give me a break....I told her to stop talking about him, because it's non-sense....but still she's talking...well...I don't hang out with her anymore....
and I understand how awful this behavior is....so lesson to learn is not doing what she does!
there are tons of happy, positive people out there instead of making friendship with an emotional vampire!