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Dec 29, 2009, 12:46 AM
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okay so im 15 and i lost my virginity last night to this guy i love ad he loves me. but theres also another guy... But first let me tell you about the first guy. I know im only 15 but we used protection. He's kinda 19 tho. I just love him so darn much and he loves me, he's really gorgeous, funny, nice, completely perfect. just the con of it is that hes a lil bit older and sometimes doesnt show his emotions for me in public. At first me and him were like brother and sister for the longest time, like bff bro and sis. But we became more. Now about the other guy. he's not all that gorgeous. he has acne and kinda yellow teeth because he was a drug addict. i know hes not the best but hes head over heals for me very much and was going to propose to me on new years but then found out i had sex with another guy so her threw it in the snow at a park. and also almost killed himself. he's moving to bc soon and i dont think a long distance relationship would work. He'll be turning 16 at the end of january.
Who do you think i should go for? 
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Dec 29, 2009, 02:48 AM
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Take your time. You don't have to get serious about a guy yet. Get to know yourself and what you want out of life first, and then choose someone you love and who supports your goals and dreams. The 19-year-old could be right for you in a few years, but right now he may be using you and taking advantage of you. It's hard to know since I don't know him or you. The younger guy really needs to get his own life straightened out before thinking about starting a family.
When people start families or relationships and they haven't gotten their own developmental needs met yet, they continue the cycles that they may have grown up with into a new generation. When you are 15, dating should be fun and you should have freedom to be friends and get to know what's out there and what life is all about. Before thinking about starting a family, please have a look at this: http://sfhelp.org/
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Dec 29, 2009, 06:21 AM
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Your are so young now .. Just 15! U don't need to go for a serious relationship .. Take your time, Judge him first .. don't take a hasty decision .. Don't go for looks, Judge his sincerity, loyalty & honesty with you!
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Jan 01, 2010, 05:09 PM
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it looks like you already know the answer to this question
 i 100% agree with the above posters, too.
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