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Old Dec 16, 2009, 07:31 PM
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He doesn't answer his phone and my mind starts wandering and the tears start. I hate it.
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Old Dec 16, 2009, 10:45 PM
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Well the only thing I have is that I have not talked to the girl i m interested in for a couple of days but nothings wrong, Ive just been real busy and havent had time to talk to her..so stop thinking negative could be nothing
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Old Dec 17, 2009, 01:26 AM
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Some guys are just really dumb with the phone or hate the phone. I'm female and hate talking on the phone. I hate hearing people breathe and talking about nothing and stupid things like what they did that day.I hate the phone so much that I have a prepay and keep it off for days. Guys usually love this about me that I don't call them about nothing.

If you're being clingy with the phone..then that can actually push some guys away.

I actually went through a similar obsessive thing a few months ago. New guy, I wanted to go do something, he never answered the phone. Was driving me crazy because he was always like "if you want to do something, call".. yeah well apparently if he couldn't do anything.. instead of telling me.. He just didn't answer. For days. My favorite was the day he actually answered and said "I noticed you called the other day but I was in an appointment'. Like..ok..so don't call after the appointment. So far it seems over with this goof but yeah.
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Old Dec 17, 2009, 05:10 AM
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I am sorry you are hurting. (((cantstopcrying)))
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Old Dec 17, 2009, 08:11 AM
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Thank you all. Not being clingy, not calling to talk about nothing. Everythings fine.
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Old Dec 17, 2009, 10:59 AM
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Is it normal to go a few days without communicating, or do you talk to each other on a daily basis? If you do talk everyday, I'd worry a little and I'd try to call him.
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Old Dec 17, 2009, 11:05 AM
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We live together. Yes, we talk (or txt) throughout the day.
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Old Dec 17, 2009, 11:49 AM
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If you live together, he is just doing what he needs to do for the day. Sometimes a person needs to focus on what is going on without any interruptions. He'll be home in the evening and then you can tell him how your day went. Don't worry honey, all is well. People gotta focus and work. It is normal life, give him and yourself a break.

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Old Dec 17, 2009, 11:56 AM
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Thank you very much. I was really struggling yesterday and felt very panicked and alone. I know you are right and your words help a lot. I will read them next time I feel like this.
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Old Dec 17, 2009, 02:59 PM
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If you live together, he is just doing what he needs to do for the day. Sometimes a person needs to focus on what is going on without any interruptions. He'll be home in the evening and then you can tell him how your day went. Don't worry honey, all is well. People gotta focus and work. It is normal life, give him and yourself a break.

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I agree with this. I'm glad that your feeling better.
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Old Dec 18, 2009, 05:25 PM
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probably the battery is dead! or he's somewhere that he can't answer phone!!!
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Old Dec 18, 2009, 05:47 PM
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probably the battery is dead! or he's somewhere that he can't answer phone!!!
Nope, but I do appreciate you taking the time to care.
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