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Old Jan 21, 2010, 03:42 AM
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ok well my bf thinks I have to show him that he can trust me but the problem is that I dont know what to do.
The things I tell him is not enough, I have to show please someone give me some advice...
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Old Jan 21, 2010, 03:56 AM
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I personally think that with trust its actually the other way around, you have to do something that causes mistrust before you can prove you are untrustworthy !

So as long as you have been open honest and trustworthy then the problem is his not yours in my head.
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Old Jan 21, 2010, 04:02 AM
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I personally think that with trust its actually the other way around, you have to do something that causes mistrust before you can prove you are untrustworthy !

So as long as you have been open honest and trustworthy then the problem is his not yours in my head.
Thanks =)
Everytime I tell him everything I'm doing or where I am.
but to him that's not enough
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Old Jan 21, 2010, 04:21 AM
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Sounds like he is the one needing help hun not you ....
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Old Jan 21, 2010, 04:41 AM
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I guess so I'll try hard to help him (:
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Old Jan 21, 2010, 05:36 AM
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I don't see how its your responsability to help him its more he needs to seek help himself for being so controlling ....
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Old Jan 21, 2010, 06:01 AM
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That's true he really loves me he has never try to hit me and he said he will never do that..
he cares about me so much.. He just feels that one day I might cheat on him or do something stupid.
I told him already that I'm not like that. And yet he doesn't seems to trust me not even a little bit :-/
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