life is a *****

Was tooooooo good to be true. AJ was being "good" for three months. And out of the blue, his attitude changed. His friends, about four of them, were here over the weekend. They were kind of snowed in I guess but since then everything has changed...........

Today AJ threw a 40 lb brass giraffe at me. Then he threw a huge picture with a glass cover at me. Throwing stuff all around... Acting like a l4 year old. Screaming and shouting......... I called his dad.

Then the one tenant/roommate, "the contractor" hasn't been paying his rent so I mentioned to AJ's dad that maybe we need to talk to him. That maybe he doesn't have the money to live here and we could help him find another place where he would not be financially burdened... AJ's dad agreed that I should talk to him.....................SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
I tell "the contractor" we need to talk... He looks at me real cocky and says "what about"? Already with his attitude, I can barely catch my breath... He says I am waiting..... SO I blurt out we need to talk about the rent and utilities...He then says you are upset we can talk later. I respond and say I am not upset and we need to talk.. We can talk upstairs or down stairs.. And he was very rude and walks away from me.

I say why are you walking away, we need to talk... he goes in his bedroom and I follow behind... He says he will call the police because I pushed his door...The door won't even close tight. Is one of the new doors he installed and he did not do it right because the door won't close tight///

ANYWAY........ snowed in....... tons of snow and high winds...... stuck in a house with folks that really would like to hurt me..... I am soooo tired of this stuff.................................... I am hating life big time............. Wish the good Lord would take me away.... Because believe me, "cagon" just won't do the trick........

So i call aj's dad.. he says "don't get upset"... I say oo sure... when someone is throwing 40lb stuff at me, I will try my best to not let it bother me.......

whoa, what a "perfect storm" youve got there. you do not deserve to be treated like that! not even remotely. that is physical abuse, even if nothing hit you. i am sorry that you are in this situation... let me know how it all develops.

Today, AJ's dad asked the "contractor" to leave. He hasn't been paying his rent or utilities is the reason he was asked to leave. The contractor hung up on AJ's dad. Not sure what will happen. I hope his move is a "quiet" one. But I have a feeling about this guy and it isn't going to be pretty.. .... My plan is to NOT go upstairs until he has moved out. Which might be a while because I have a feeling he isn't going to just "nicely" move out... He is going to drag this out as long as he can....

As for all the other stuff happening here, as long as I stay away from AJ things will be fine.................. We all have a touch of "cabin fever" as being snowed in for several days...... AJ isn't in a hurry to dig out his car or the mailbox....let alone take the three feet of snow off the deck and steps.... I made a little dogie path, got all wet and now I am sick... So I won't be shoveling much snow.... Hope the deck doesn't fall from the weight of the snow..... maybe tomorrow I will try to clean off the deck........

Life is peachy now.......... alive and somewhat well...........