[Loveme101]

ok my ex won't talk to me, let's give you what happen we broke up cause he felt like I was not treating him like a girlfriend so we Birkenhead he got a girlfriend because i wouldn't talk to him cause when we broke up and I tried to make things work and get us back togther he blew me off so I wanted to show him how it felt right? Wrong! so we start talking to each other again and he tells me how much he missed me and how much he loved me why he was still dating this girl and we was having sex to. But everything is going well until my birthday hits and I cheat on him but we not dating and he gets all worked up, like if I mention doing anything wit other people he would get hurt and mad, but it made no sense to me cause he has a girl, then I talk about me getting a boyfriend and then he gets all mad but he got a girl what the world?? But anyways he gets mad and upset saying that he was going to break up with that girl for me but he don't know anymore? but then he doesn't talk to me for awhile after that then I text him and ask can he forgive me and he did and he said he don't want to share me and he loves and cares about me and don't make him regret for giving me. So everything is ok we talked everday but then things started to feel weird and so I asked him if he still cares about me and loves me and he says yea that he cares about me but he don't love me cause I hurt him so much with all the lieing and cheating that all his love fade and he can't take my crap anymore and he is tired of me what do I do?? I am confused and lost did his love really fade or he does not want to love me but he does and he just don't wan to get hurt no more that's why he ain't talking to me he just wants me gone? Cause he always said he wanted me gone everytime he got mad at me but then he would say you don't understand it's not that easy to let you go but when I asked him this time do he really want me to go he ain't answer all he said was you leaving does not affect me? What does all this mean and what should I do and he stills has that girlfriend I think he is in denial and he still loves me he just has that girl to erase me and hopefully build a connection with her that he wanted with me?? Help

[Rhapsody]

While it may still sting at the moment from the break-up I think it is all for best and that you both should move on with out each other... ((( hugs )))

[sabby]

I agree with Rhapsody.....it's time to move on and let go. I know it's hard to do sometimes, but I do believe you would be better off without him. There are certainly other men out there who would not play the games he is playing with you. He wants it both ways....wants you to stay only unto him while he can play the field at the same time. Can you see what is wrong with that picture?

You deserve much better than that. Please take good care of yourself!


sabby