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Old Mar 28, 2010, 02:33 PM
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My friends are sick of the way my family treats me, they say I am a good, good person with so much to offer, everyone who meets me adores me, I am not the 'deadbeat' my family treats me as. They say my Dad has to step up to the plate and stop his apathy, start caring even. My mother will never ever care she's always been against me (when people started calling me strange because I was a bit different my mother started verbally attacking me, controlling my finances, and driving me into the poorhouse) But my father as apathetic as he is,,well my friends Stacey and Karen are going to cnofrnt my Dad, he is a millinoaire and says when my car dies I am going to have to 'get around by bus..' which is impossible it only comes to my area once a day then goes everywhere but where I want to go, will have to quit my job if I rely on bus. My friends know how much money he has they have seen his cars and mansion and are pushing for a $10,000 car for me. They are sickened that in all the ways society was cruel to me for being different they did not say, "This is my daughter!!" They sat back and told me to go on food stamps, when people of their friends circles saw me doing minimum wage jobs they laughed at me. I cannot write much more....I see how my family always kept me at an arm's length, always mocked me, never let my good and true friends near, well they are coming near to them NOW. They are pissed and they are going to show it. At least I am loved by them.
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Old Mar 28, 2010, 02:46 PM
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((((Junerain))) - sorry you don't feel supported by your family and it's not right you should suffer, if your father has the means to help. You're lucky to have good friends
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Old Mar 28, 2010, 02:58 PM
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I'm sorry you are suffering as well.
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Old Mar 28, 2010, 05:04 PM
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Who knows? Good luck, Junerain.
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Old Mar 28, 2010, 06:19 PM
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I think your friends are right. You deserve to be cared about.
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Old Mar 28, 2010, 07:21 PM
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You are loved by many junerain.
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Old Mar 30, 2010, 05:50 PM
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(((((Junerain)))))

It sounds like your friends are your family in the true sense of the word. You must be a nice person to have people care about you so much.
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Old Mar 30, 2010, 07:47 PM
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I hope you are better today.
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Old Mar 30, 2010, 08:11 PM
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