i meet this guy, i liked him, he liked me, so it seemed.
we were texting each other for about 3 days and then suddenly we were talking about how much we wanted to see each other again and all that. then we were talking and we got on to how we wanted to kiss each other. we planned to hang out on the sunday, his birthday, and we were going to kiss. i was going to be the first girl he kissed when he was 16.
the wednesday after he called me saying he could come down, asking was i free, and i went and met him. we ended up kissing, and we had a completely amazing night just being with each other.
i thought something could work out, and that it would be a fun realtionship. that maybe it could be a serious one. he seemed to really like me. but we were in my room, and he had his hand up my top, and i started thinking no way was i going further, no mater how much i liked him. and then he went to put his hands down my jeans, but i pushed him away. he was like ok im sorry i wont try anything again unless you say i can. and it was all ok again, and we started kissing again...

the thursday night he texted me saying he didnt think we should be together, but he really liked me.
i was really hurt. he was basically playing with my head.
i was meant to be his first kiss on when he was 16, but ive ended up his last kiss as a 15 year old.
and he still is texting me. putting xox after every text. and i dont know what to do. i really like him but he doesnt like me like that and i know im being pulled along for fun, but i cant help falling for him and im so utterly lost. what should i do??? i need help. i should stay away but i cant.

You like the attention. You know what he wants to do for you to keep his attention. You know what is going on. You have more invested in this than he likely will ever have.

You say you should stay away but can't? Sure you can. You have to like yourself enough to choose not to be exploited.

[NuckingFutz]

He's basically manipulating you with his text so you will give him what he wants. He is pressuring you to go where you are not comfortable...friends do not do that. You deserve to have friends that have your best interests at heart. Please take care of yourself.

im going out tomorrow night with my friends, and he is going to be there to... Im just going to go have an awesome night and show him i dont need him, but its going to hurt... I cant stop thinking about him. And i know he is probably going to try and get with another girl, and thats going to hurt too. And i just miss him so much. I have to get over it, and move on, but i dont think i want to. I dont know what i want anymore.

[bballer]

it's tough. but you can do it

well, i went out tonight, and i had a really good time... And he was there, and when i seen him standing there, it waz like a jolt of electricity hit my heart. But i had my friends and they kept me strong, and i just tried my best to look like i was having fun, and i did.
At the end of the night he came over and said hi, and i said hey, and walked on with my head held high to my friend.
But she said he was checking me out all night... And that just confuses me, because he doesnt want me. Else we would still be together. I miss him and wish that i had spoke to him for longer, but i had to show him that i have a life without him and i need to show im not crushed by this, even if its not true. I really hate this.
At least i had a good night...

[desperate&disturbed]

you deserve better than that, don't settle. you will find better i promise!

i cant take it, i miss him so much, and i cant get him out of my mind its been 15 days since he finished with me, even if we cant be together i still want to be his friend but it hurts right now, but it hurts more not to text him. How can i stop feeling like this for someone? Its making me do stupid things like si. He's not worth that, but at the same time he is.