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Old Apr 04, 2010, 11:32 PM
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Need serious advice
I have a friend whom i just met and we REALLY connect well when we are together. She teaches a yoga class that i attend and it has done so much for my self esteem and confidence. When i am SOOO confused and angry about is that she is really showing what kind of a peron she is. I've NEVER met such a flaky/ bazaar person on my life. She'll send me messages saying that she wants to hang out and when the time comes to hang out.. she backs out... She has canceled on me 3 times and it's really starting to trigger old abandonment issues with me. Just yesterday she texted me out of the blue to reschedule our plans to meet up because once again, she flaked. I sent a text to her stating that i would call her tonight to reschedule. I called her at about 10pm cst and assumed that she would be up because she is a night owl. Anyway i called and was sent straight to vm. she then sent a text saying , "almost asleep, text me). She still hasn't answered my text and was just on facebook for almost 30 min.. What is with this person! Is it me? I don't get what she is trying to do or accomplish and frankly i don't have time for it anymore. She is SO TRIGGERING to me and I don't know whether to just do away with her or what? Has anyone ever met this type of person?

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Old Apr 05, 2010, 12:05 AM
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Sounds like your friendship is still in the early stages. Give it time.
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Old Apr 05, 2010, 07:18 PM
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What friendship?
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Old Apr 05, 2010, 09:24 PM
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Yep, Byzantine you do raise a point.. however she has teh weekend to redeem herself...
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