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Apr 05, 2010, 07:32 PM
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2004 to 2010 my husband was cheating on me with me son tutor that worked with him whom which he referred.this woman smile in my face plus wrote a book which i brought and had given this woman a dozen of rose.in 2009 my husband went to Washington DC and he forgot to log off his computer which he never does at all.i found out that the have had sex made love like two married couples that are truly in love..now that his health is getting poor were as he has kidney disease,he inform me that they don't communicate anymore but they do.he promise. also when they want to dc he slept with another co-worker how i know he stated that a man roded with them.i confronted that man and he stated that i want that's what he was told.my son is 10 yrs old my family say what ever goes on in your house do what ever it takes to keep your family together no matter what.my husband haven't touch me in 6mos.he says that his health has him feeling like this but kidney disease wasn't told to him until march2010.he says that he don't have no desires.but the weekend i am at work he drops my son off at my parents and pick him up before he pick me up at 11pm.please help me i just want to be happy if that's anyway possible.i have no friends because he thinks there are going to introduce me to another man.
 
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Apr 05, 2010, 10:43 PM
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(((CAREN)))) So sorry for the pain your in. You have your hands full raising a son and trying to keep your marriage together. Its sad for you that your husband feels its ok to cheat. Hope you find comfort and healing here
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Apr 05, 2010, 11:28 PM
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I would not even be able to look at him. I am sorry you are having to go through this. Have you come up with any ideas to help? What are his plans to make the marriage work. We are here for you.
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Apr 06, 2010, 03:21 AM
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Caren, you truly deserve better sweetheart.
Don't wait till the last minute. It is possible that you CAN be happy, more successfully without him. It seems as if he's your main source of pain. Marriage is a commitment, a promise. Most importantly think about what is best for your son. You do not want him to grow up in your husbands foot-steps. We are here for you. All the way.
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Apr 06, 2010, 09:34 PM
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Hello, caren1971. Perhaps seeing a therapist would help you sort this out. With all due respect, I think your family is telling you a bunch of hooey. The problems you and he are experiencing are not helping your son.
Love yourself. Be well. |
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Apr 07, 2010, 12:37 PM
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Apr 07, 2010, 02:56 PM
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he's the cheater then he doesn't let you to have a friend because he's afraid of you finding another guy???? what is with that?
sweet hear, stay strong and try to make a good decision....I'm thinking even probably it's better that he's not sleeping with you anymore....How can you trust him if he's clean without any STDs? now that you know he's sleeping around..... If you are asking me, and if I were you, I would not let him to be close to me even for a moment.....I would never trust a cheater.....but this is all up to you to make a decision..... take care of yourself and your son you are in my thoughts Marjan |
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