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Old May 18, 2010, 02:18 PM
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My ex husband keeps emailing me once in a while or comes on yahoo messenger.....and I completely ignore all of them.....

I don't know why he does not understand that everything has done between us four years ago and I hate to have any contacts with him....I even don't live in the same country.....

last night, he got on yahoo and he called me by my nick name that he used to call....arggg....I felt disgusted.....he had me all to himself for five years and he didn't care when I was all crying and begging for fixing our marriage....then he wanted me right after separation, too late....

it makes me sick to my stomach....and makes me so angry, because I put everything behind, but him contacting me is bring all that bitter memories back to my life....

I feel I wasted 5 best years of my life for a guy that would not have changed....he still doesn't have a clue of what I like....I hate to get a line of email saying "how are you?" every now on then.....GOD.....I want to scream laud.....and I don't want him in my life....

All those days that I was waiting for him to come back from work while I prepared food and then he was coming him not hungry....why? because he didn't care about me....he went to the restaurant block from our home and had his food already before getting home....while I was sitting hungry waiting for him....and then fight over fight and him beating me....who wants that life???? ya...he wants it....me responsible pay for all bills and home and everything and him not even care about anything....I hate this guy....If I stay single for rest of my life is better than having him back in my life....

sorry guys for ranting....I had to get it out from my system....
marjan

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Old May 18, 2010, 02:40 PM
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Can you block him on messenger/elsewhere? I don't blame you, not a rant. No, he obviously is too thick to get it!
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Old May 18, 2010, 03:34 PM
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Can you block him on messenger/elsewhere? I don't blame you, not a rant. No, he obviously is too thick to get it!
Yes...I finally blocked him...but I just didn't want to block him in case he had something emergency that need to contact me....I don't know....some legal stuff or whatever....but as he doesn't get it, I had to block him!
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Old May 18, 2010, 07:43 PM
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Sorry this happened, marjan.
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