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Old May 17, 2010, 11:45 PM
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how do you know the guy is right for you
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Old May 17, 2010, 11:54 PM
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Take your time MyOasis.

Maybe even wait a bit longer to get involved as it has only been a few months. You are just perfect the way you are so just let it unfold. Don't press for anything. Good things come to those that wait.

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Old May 18, 2010, 12:06 AM
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When you dont have to ask if he is right for you - You just know it (feel it).
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Old May 18, 2010, 01:43 PM
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If he loves you, he respects you. That doesn't mean he is "good" to you, buys you presents or remembers your birthday :-) but he listens sincerely and treats you as a good friend and lets you know what he's feeling about you and hopes you will join him in his own life and the plans he has for it and is interested in learning what you are planning to do with yours.
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Old May 18, 2010, 07:32 PM
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When you dont have to ask if he is right for you - You just know it (feel it).
And I'd guess when you probably don't have that ..gut instinct/something.. in the pit of your stomach or back in your mind screaming "wtf" that you keep ignoring and hiding.

But also - Someone can "love" you but that doesn't mean you do love them or have to love them or that they are right for you.
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