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Old Jul 20, 2010, 05:30 PM
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Not to be a buzz kill, but I really do not see the point in love.

You love this person, then they savagely tear your heart out, scraping it on the pavement into a shredded mass of pulsing memories and fantasies about the person that never came fully true.

Worthless. Why should I get my heart broken again?

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Old Jul 20, 2010, 05:38 PM
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Sounds like you've been very hurt. Sadly I know how you feel and feel the same way.
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Old Jul 20, 2010, 06:03 PM
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Aww. Im sorry guys. If you need to talk im a pretty good listener
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Old Jul 20, 2010, 06:10 PM
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we can find true love with good freinds
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Old Jul 20, 2010, 06:13 PM
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Not to be a buzz kill, but I really do not see the point in love.

You love this person, then they savagely tear your heart out, scraping it on the pavement into a shredded mass of pulsing memories and fantasies about the person that never came fully true.

Worthless. Why should I get my heart broken again?
I agree with everything that you wrote... it's my greatest fear - that once again I will be so badly hurt that I will want to die... but on the other hand I have to put myself out there... don't want to die wondering what could have/would have been
I'm living on the hope that there must be the 'right' relationship out there.. Look at people who have been married for 60+ years.. and are still in love. You have to have hope
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Old Jul 20, 2010, 08:17 PM
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Bad experiences in relationships are the norm at PC. Those who have meaningful ones have no reason to come here. The polarity of the relationship posts is quite a phenomenon. So many are so obsessed with having one and just as many have decided enough is enough and want out.

What we perceive as love may make a fool of all of us. To first know and love yourself is so critical. Those who do seem to get their heads out of the clouds and really take a hard look at who they are attracted to.

Building a strong relationship is hard work. Anything worthwhile generally is.
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Old Jul 20, 2010, 11:09 PM
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Bad experiences in relationships are the norm at PC. Those who have meaningful ones have no reason to come here.
Hello Byz,

I have a very loving meaningful relationship with my partner, maybe I'm a freak? The only relationships that are or were troublesome were the family ones which I have left behind.

Sometimes when one isn't looking the right person looks at you and everything falls into place. I vowed and declared just before I left my marriage that I would never ever have another man in my life...3 days out I met the love of my life.


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Old Jul 20, 2010, 11:14 PM
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Rhiannon you make me smile and continue to have hope xxx Thank you!!
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Old Jul 21, 2010, 12:29 AM
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That is so true about finding and feeling love with true friends!!
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Old Jul 21, 2010, 03:48 AM
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I certainly do not think you are a freak, Rhiannonsmoon. I apologize if I offended you. You are to be congratulated for the meaningful relationship.

Having said that, a lot of lonely, disappointed people frequent PC.
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