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Jul 23, 2010, 09:04 AM
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Recently I rejoined Facebook and have contacted my ex girlfriend and she was glad to hear from me. We keep in contact maybe once a week. Nothing serious , just how's it going type of thing. Anyway she messaged me last night and said she was flying down to visit her brother which is about a 4 hour drive from here. She asked me how far of a drive it was and would love to see me to catch up on things.
 Here's the thing . I also am in contact with a lady my age who suffers from bipolar and anxiety and she wants to meet me next week after her exams. She drives a motorcycle and seems very nice. My ex girlfriend is 10 years younger than me and I would probably get back with her in a flash if she didn't live 1000 miles away. What do I tell her ? Yes , I would love to see you . After all there's nothing wrong with that , right? I just don't know  HELP
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Jul 23, 2010, 09:09 AM
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Are you dating the woman your age or just talking to her? ;o'
If you're not dating then I say why not hang out with your ex? If you are then maybe out of respect for her you shouldn't see her.
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Jul 24, 2010, 02:33 AM
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babysteps
I don't see any reason not to see her, or to see the other lady too. Just don't get hurt by wanting something that is over to rekindle...she does live so far away and I'd hate to see you get hurt in any way at all... Rhiannon
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Jul 24, 2010, 02:41 AM
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Nothing wrong with having choices. Think it over and if you can keep the women from running into one another, it would give you options and things to think about. That is, if you have no commitments to either one of them.
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Jul 24, 2010, 09:23 PM
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who am i kidding.....
i will be alone forever.
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Jul 24, 2010, 09:28 PM
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((((babysteps))))
You won't be alone forever...why if I was 30 years younger and living over there I'd hunt ya down...  You obviously have feelings for your ex and I think hope that something may regenerate...if that is the case and it does regenerate then there is nothing wrong with that... Are you ready to move if it does?
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Jul 24, 2010, 10:10 PM
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I never know what I want......
It hurts so bad. 
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Jul 24, 2010, 10:19 PM
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Nothing wrong with keeping all options open is there?
Visiting with your ex, who seems to be a friend now is absolutely fine. Meeting the other woman later on in the week is quite alright too! You don't have to make any decisions now as you don't really know where things will lead right? You are a free agent hon.....meet, greet, talk, enjoy each other's company and watch where it goes from there!   sabby |
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