[Kangels3287]

I had posted a couple days ago concerning my ex wants to sleep with me. Now the story gets worse. He made plans with me on Friday night to go to his house to talk after he was done working. Which wasn't till 11:00PM. I went over and he was not home! I called and text, he did not answer. I was worried because he is a police officer and I thought something could of happened.
On Saturday, he text me and told me to come over that evening. I texted him back and asked what time. He didnt text me back for a couple of hours. When he did he said he never invited me to come over and that he was not going to be home. I forwarded his text to him and asked what is going on. No response. Today he text at me 2 PM and told me to come over at 5PM. Then at 5:07PM he text me and said he was not home! I never saw either of these because I was boating and didnt take my cell because I didnt want to talk to him. Why is he doing this? I do still love him and he knows I would do whatever it takes to have come back to me. He gets my hopes up and then shoots me down all in the same day. it is very emotional!! Is something wrong with him? I never did anything wrong, we broke up because he got cold feet about getting married. He keeps telling me to be patient with him and give him time and space. I have never known someone that acts like this. Any thoughts or advice?

[Belle1979]

Cut him loose.. He's playing games and it's just hurting you more and more.
I had an ex tell me that he needed 'time'.. If they can't decide that they really want you NOW.. then what is time really going to do?

You deserve better than being strung along xxx

[Rhiannonsmoon]

I totally and utterly agree with Belle..the guy is trouble and knows exactly what he is doing. He wants to be sure that he has someone who he can mentally abuse and control. If you give in to this now your married life would be hell if ever you got that far...Ever think that this could be part of the reason he is already divorced?