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Aug 08, 2010, 01:34 AM
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I'm
 by my boyfriend's favors and requests? I don't want to listen to what he tells me. I  him and everything but he scares me way too badly  that. I can't speak and or think for myself without him terrorizing me half to death and. I seem to see him wherever. I go and even though he's got me right where he wanted me to be?!?  is all. I do know and even though. I'm border line Bipolar Depressive Disorder and maybe he wants to get rid of me so he'll be a  man?! I won't have to worry about what he wants so badly for me to do to myself?!  and anyway after the fact he wants to scare me with his harsh and hateful words and requests  is all he has and. I'm trying to reason with him too but. I'm losing everything good about him  and maybe his signs of verbal abuse is tearing and bringing me down really fast!!!!!!  and he can't stop lol at me at all. I try to get him to stop but it's so difficult for him to see from my perspective that he's hurting us and mostly me and my self-esteem and my love for him also  for me from him what so ever?! I feel worthless all the time and he has me right where he wanted me to be a really long time ago as well. 
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Aug 08, 2010, 06:52 PM
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If he is bringing you down and verbally abusing you, do you really want to spend your time and energy with this person?
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#3
Aug 08, 2010, 07:30 PM
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from all you are saying this guy sounds like bad news any kind of abuse is not ok. it may start of verbal but has the potential to turn physical. that is not love in my book. if your self esteem is dropping maybe its time to drop him. you shouldnt have to put up with that kind of behavior. keep yourself safe.
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Aug 08, 2010, 11:03 PM
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Oooohaa! Get AWAY from this guy! Whatever else get away and get a proper life. As Belle and Bridgie say abuse is not a basis for a relationship it is a basis for bullies to grow into abusers.
Please do yourself a favour, realise now that you are better than this and just get the heck out of it, Rhiannon
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