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Aug 03, 2010, 11:13 PM
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I finally met someone . We went out and had a coffee and talked for three hours . We felt very comfortable with each other and I even got a kiss
 Who knows what is next . She wants to see me again Not getting too excited yet though . lol
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Aug 04, 2010, 04:06 AM
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((((((((Naturefreak))))))))
That is so lovely! You really deserve someone Nature I hope this goes the way you want it to...Relax and enjoy, my friend!
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Aug 04, 2010, 04:32 AM
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Fantastic news. I am so happy for you and will hope it goes from strength to strength.
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Aug 04, 2010, 05:49 AM
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 (((Rhiannonsmoon))) (((Sabrina)))Luv you both 
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Aug 04, 2010, 11:23 AM
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how wonderful naturefreak! I"m very happy for you!
Just go with the flow and enjoy the journey, I hope it all works out well for you Best Wishes Typo |
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Aug 04, 2010, 12:37 PM
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Awesome news!
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Aug 04, 2010, 01:28 PM
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how wonderful
 enjoy every moment of it and don't think too far
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Aug 04, 2010, 06:25 PM
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Good news, Chris.
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Aug 05, 2010, 05:04 PM
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So I haven't seen her in over a day now and she is all I can think about.
She is busy with some personal things and is going to take me for a ride on her motorcycle tomorrow night. I just don't want to screw this up . Any advice on sexual advances , when , or should I just let it happen naturally? I asked if I could kiss her the other night and she said "sure if you want to , at least you asked. I know I'm an adult and I shouldn't need advice but I'm not the best at relationships because I tend to be too nice , which doesn't make sense to me but anyhow . My last relationship we had sex on the first date and the second and so on. I don't want that to happen again . I really like this woman and she seems to like me. All I can do I guess is go with the flow. 
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Aug 05, 2010, 05:11 PM
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That's wonderful news! I hope she likes nature as much as you. just take it slow. She will let you know when to take the next step. Keep us posted.
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Aug 05, 2010, 05:20 PM
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great.....just go with the flow as you said.....you don't need to plan anything ahead of time....things will happen naturally between you guys....and it's wonderful.....those quick touches, those quick glances at each other....
so happy for you.....it's awesome....enjoy it.... |
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Aug 05, 2010, 08:16 PM
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how wonderfull to have found a love interest. take it one day at a time remember you have time to get to know her and get closer to her. there is no rush. she will show signals when its time to advance your realationship. they may be small just be a gentleman and treat her with decency and you shouldnt have too many problems good luck to you
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Aug 06, 2010, 03:40 PM
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So I spent the last 5 hours painting . Yes painting . I offered to help her paint some rooms . We had a nice talk and tonight we are going for a motorcycle ride to the beach. Wish me luck.
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Aug 06, 2010, 08:27 PM
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Enjoy your ride to the beach, I like this woman already!
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Peace, the deep imperturbable peace is right there within you, quieten the mind and slow the heart and breathe...breathe in the perfume of the peace rose and allow it to spread throughout your mind body and senses...it can only benefit you and those you care about...I care about you |
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Aug 06, 2010, 09:42 PM
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Well the night went well . A nice talk and some passionate kissing . It was wonderful and we both enjoyed it . Things are looking up.
Thanks everyone
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Aug 06, 2010, 10:41 PM
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You deserve it. Enjoy!
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Aug 08, 2010, 09:03 AM
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wonderfull iam happy for you
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Aug 08, 2010, 11:50 PM
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Oooh jealous on one hand and so happy for you on the other! (I love motorcycles and we had 2 both sold before we moved, made me so sad) I am sooooooo happy for you! my little heart is jumping up and down! I really really want you to be happy and I am holding my breath for you...  ..oops held it too long!Please keep us updated it's like a love novel...
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Peace, the deep imperturbable peace is right there within you, quieten the mind and slow the heart and breathe...breathe in the perfume of the peace rose and allow it to spread throughout your mind body and senses...it can only benefit you and those you care about...I care about you |
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Aug 09, 2010, 01:39 PM
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Awww.... I am hard pressed to think of anyone more wonderful and deserving.
Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy! 
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Aug 09, 2010, 08:37 PM
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Well it's been 2 days since I saw her and she's all I can think about .
She is busy with some personal things right now. I think it may be making my depression worse at the moment because I really miss her company. I don't want to move too fast and smother her either . We keep in touch on Facebook , but it's not the same as being with her in person. I think if we are seperated for too long she will lose interest in me as I have self esteem issues. I am going to take her out to dinner this week . Geez this can't be happening. 
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Aug 09, 2010, 10:51 PM
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How about focusing on the good things to come? Maybe the depression will disappear!
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Aug 10, 2010, 07:53 AM
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Aug 10, 2010, 08:26 AM
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((Naturefreak))
From where I'm sitting, it looks like you're doing everything right and you've got a good thing going.  No one can predict the future, so enjoy the time you have together now. I wish you all the best in this relationship.
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Aug 10, 2010, 08:30 AM
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I hope that suggestion wasn't too simplistic. But I do hope it helps.
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