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Aug 26, 2010, 02:56 PM
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how can i overcome a jealousy problem??
I hate when my boyfriend even walks by another girl that I think looks prettier than me, it puts me in a bad mood and ruins my night or day.... I think most of it is my self-esteem issue but how can I fix my jealousy of other girls. Im not being concided but Im really pretty or i used to be, I dont think I am now..lol |
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Aug 27, 2010, 02:03 AM
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You need to improve your self esteem and not judge yourself by the looks of others. I gather you have had a baby recently, if this is correct you could need to speak to your doctor about it
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Aug 28, 2010, 01:32 AM
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There's a lot more to life than being pretty. Try to think of what other good traits you have and work on developing those instead of having your entire self esteem wrapped up in your appearance. Then perhaps it won't bother you so much if your boyfriend walks past a pretty girl.
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Aug 28, 2010, 01:32 PM
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many times when we arent feeling the greatest about ourselves all the other women seem to be prettier than us. if you know remember feeling pretty before it probably hasnt changed just your perception. if you have just had a baby your body will go through an adjustment period and your boyfriend will think you are beautiful even if you dont. everyone is correct when they say looks arent everything even if it is a "pretty" girl they may not have a winning personality and personality will make someone even more beautiful than just looks alone. keep working on building up your self-esteem as that is probably more the issue than anything else. and remember your boyfriend is with YOU he loves YOU.
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Aug 29, 2010, 04:00 AM
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ummm this pretty hard cause i kind of jealous to sometimes with my boyfriend but i neva believe anyone look better than me..... and its not that u jealous its just that u love him and u dont want nobody else to have him but dont be over the top with the jealousy cause that can cause him to loose interest in you.... |
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