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Aug 30, 2005, 03:56 PM
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My bf said last night that he didn't want any kisses or anything like that for like 3 days. I told him fine, he can have his 3 days. I don't know what to do. He's still showing love and affection...he apologized for being such a jerk last night, but it makes me wonder what the hell's going on.
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Aug 30, 2005, 05:50 PM
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Were you guys fighting when he said that or was it out of the blue? Has he said this type of thing before? When you say he is still being affectionate, what do you mean by that?
He did appologize so maybe he was just having a little moment. Have there been some other suddle things happening lately that has you concerned? Hugs, Jen |
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Aug 30, 2005, 06:09 PM
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He just said it out of the blue. Then he apologized and started kissing me and everything...like that made it all better.
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Aug 31, 2005, 03:18 PM
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Oh I see. Sometimes when couples fight, things are said that someone really doesnt mean. For the person it was said too it can cause some really hurt feelings. Usually, the person who said these things will appologize and expect it to be "over". Even when the other person is still hurting.
I would suggest that you sit him down. Tell him that the comment concerns you and that it really hurt your feelings. Make him understand that just because the fight is over, doesnt mean that your still not hurt by what was said. I hope that it works out for you. Hugs, Jen |
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Aug 31, 2005, 03:40 PM
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My husband said something similar to me once. Later he said he just meant that day. But you're right, its always in the back of your mind. I agree with Jen, discuss it with him.
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