Update

For all those that were wondering how things were going from my last posts. Not much has changed. He is giving me more support with the baby and he has been trying to spend a little more time with me. I'm not sure if its a temporary thing to passify me or if he really is trying. That's why I haven't posted more yet.

I am pleased to hear that you are getting more support. I don't know your back story, but I surmise that you are experiencing difficulty in your relationship.

I can remember when I had my first child and feeling so angry and resentful at my husband because he mysteriously disappeared frequently. This led to many, many terrible arguments.

Looking back, I spent more time wondering where my husband was then on taking care of myself or even thinking of myself and my well-being.

If I had an opportunity to do it all over again, I would have stopped my continual nagging and criticism of all the things my husband was not doing or in my opinion, doing incorrectly. Instead, I wish I had gotten busy and found a group of other new moms so that I had an outlet and met some new friends.

Once you accept that you have absolutely no power over anyone but yourself and you take action towards self-care, I can absolutely guarantee that you will feel immensely better about yourself.

30 day guarantee: Make your home a pleasant place without arguing or criticizing and, get outside with your new baby everyday, and research a new mom's group in your area. Get your hair done, nails/pedicare. Wear clothing that you feel is attractive. If you feel like blowing up, simply don't. Go out for a walk or a ride in the car. No one can make up happy - it's your challenge to find a life worth liviing.
You can do it! Laurie

I'm glad to hear your getting better and you had some very good things to say.

Things aren't really going all that well and they probally wont for a long time.