[NuckingFutz]

I'm engaged and have been seeing this person for 3 years. The past 2 years, my girlfriend has been working fullltime, going to school and unfortunately...supporting me when she can.

I've been looking for work, but it's been really frustrating. I get close and sometime even get a second interview, but alas, no job.

Our time as you can imagine, has been extremely limted. We don't live together yet. When we do see eachother it's to run an errand or fix my computer then she says her knee hurts and goes home.

She plays her computer games a lot more attention then she pays me.

I can understand her resentment, but I'm scared our relationship will just putter out.

I don't want to loose this woman as she has a pure heart, she's honest, hard working, and use to be very loving. When I approach the subject it's always "where are we going to spend time along together?" I suspect her best friend (who I suspect doesn't like me) and I live with other people.

Is there any hope?

[lisa39]

It is important now that you address your feelings immediately. Don't wait! She may not even realize it, call it crazy but it's possible. Don't assume she has a crystal ball and knows exactly what you are thinking. She sounds busy with school, work and trying to manage a serious relationship with someone that has more free time at the moment would be hard to balance. Remember we can do anything temporarily, just make sure that you both want the same things and keep the lines of communication always open. She's your friend, remember that. She'll listen.