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Old Oct 21, 2010, 04:43 PM
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I have been trying to get Eric out of my head lately. And at the same time im keeping my ex away so that he doesnt expect anything from me. Its wearing me out. Im feeling loveless and lonely.

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Old Oct 21, 2010, 04:46 PM
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I'm sorry things are hard right now
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Old Oct 21, 2010, 04:46 PM
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Every now and then i feel an impulse to contact Eric again. This time with my real identity. But i resist it,cuz it wont get me anywhere. Rather he might be more harsh towards me this time. Im getting tired of trying to hold up my self respect.
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Old Oct 21, 2010, 04:53 PM
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I wonder why is it so hard to find love afterall. I loved my ex so much,but he had got married to someone else and then i moved on which was such an emotional drain out for me. I ended up seeing a psychologist. But now that he is divorced and wants me back, i dont love him any more. I dont find him attractive any more. Why is that so. I dont understand.
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Old Oct 21, 2010, 05:52 PM
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Hi!

That has happened to me many times in the past. It is ok though. It just shows you that it wasn't meant to be. They knew they had something good, but that same old greener on the other side problem starts, and well look what happens we move on and they are still stuck. Keep moving on. You are better off. Hugs to you....

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Old Oct 21, 2010, 07:50 PM
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Jiakhan

Keep taking it day by day . I know the feeling , but it will get better .
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Old Oct 21, 2010, 08:54 PM
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Dear Jaikahn,

As Nature has said, take it slowly one day at a time or one moment at a time and guide yourself through it.

Things are hard at the moment but they will change and you will come out the other end feeling stronger and knowing yourself better. Keep that dignity and self respect close to you because they are a good guide on how we are doing,

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Old Oct 23, 2010, 01:48 PM
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Hello, jiakhan. I hope things turn around for you soon.
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