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Sep 27, 2009, 06:53 AM
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Hi.
It seems impossible but I just got married on my birthday, Sept. 7. i am 42. I am having a lot of trouble believing that anyone could love me. the best friend I've evr had told me that I am too messed up for love, but apparently Dane doesn't think so. this is uncharted territory for me. But I am so happy. I feel like this isn't meant for me. Every time something bad happens---and something bad did happen---right after our honeymoon---I think I am being punished by some supernatural force. Anyone else have this issue? Where they can't believe something so good is happening to them and it is theirs to have? Billi |
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Sep 27, 2009, 10:00 AM
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Congrats to you. Things do come up with everyone. IMO it's just a part of life that we need to deal with.
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Sep 28, 2009, 04:53 AM
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Congratulations, Billi. You deserve to be happy. It is normal to question your bliss but don't listen to any girlfriends who badmouth you! Sweet blessings!
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Sep 29, 2009, 03:51 AM
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thank you!
Had a good cry in Dane's arms last night.
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Sep 30, 2009, 08:57 AM
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
time to enjoy what you have, and to learn that now Dane is a part of a your life, he will also be there to share your burdens (and triumphs!) too. bads things happening are a part of life, but i'm so happy that you've found someone who will stay by you. |
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Sep 30, 2009, 09:07 AM
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 Hi Billi - I answered a few of your questions over in the Q&A section. Congratulations on your marriage - I hope you both be very happy.
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Sep 30, 2009, 12:49 PM
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Thank you everyone for your latest feedback.
Billi
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! |
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Sep 30, 2009, 02:11 PM
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congratulation my friend....and be just happy....don't think about bad stuff, then they won't happen to you....bad and good are everywhere and happens all the time to everybody....so relax and enjoy your love life
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Oct 01, 2009, 01:02 AM
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(bursting into the party all late, dancing to my own drummer)
WOO HOOO!! Congratu-freakin-lations!  Go Billi- Go Dane- Go Marriage - w00t w00t! We all get our share of crap - no need to go freakin out when the good stuff comes along too! At least, that's what I try to tell myself. I'm much better at accepting bad things than good things into my life. I have, however, grown very comfortable in appreciating my hubby and our love. w00t! Many years of love to ya! |
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Oct 01, 2009, 04:28 AM
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Congratulations. Enjoy your happiness. And remember to always give kind and gentle time to yourself.
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Oct 01, 2009, 02:38 PM
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Yep, i can definitely understand what you're feeling. I often think the same thing about myself. I feel worthless most of the time. I don't really know how my boyfriend can love me. I know i don't treat him very well when i'm depressed. Yet, he still puts up with it. I have went through and seen so much negativity in my life that it's like i expect everything to be negative now. It's just such a difficult thing that weighs me down. :-( Nobody should have to go through this. Hope you feel better soon! Apparently, we are loved and we do deserve happiness so we should just be happy.
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Oct 01, 2009, 08:24 PM
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congratz.
What went wrong ??? why do you think it was YOUR punishment rather than something that just... well, happened?
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Oct 28, 2010, 04:57 PM
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Had to bump this topic.
Now divorcing. Cause I couldn't deal with it and Dane couldnt' deal with that. Anyway, now celebrating because we were both honest enough to end it. Billi
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