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Old Oct 24, 2010, 08:48 AM
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I don't know why I have trouble keeping my friends. Yesterday, I just went to the party. My friend is so very friendly and sweet. There were not a lot of people came, but still I could see that see knows how to keep her friendS. I don't know, but some people have a lot of friends, but some have trouble dating guys. I don't know, but I have problem in making friends.Last night, when her friend introduced to her she asked her number. I've been with my bf friends for 3 months I guess and I haven't knew their numbers. I mean if I knew what topic are we going to talk to? I guess I'm such a boring person. If I'm boring why does my guy friend stays with me and enjoy my company. He even told me last last night that I was his best friend. I mean I don't know. I just have not much friend and we don't talk a lot. We don't hang out and we don't talk a lot. I don't know, but when I am looking at the past when I was living in our province I was friend with everybody. I mean most people like me and adore me. I don't know that when I grew up I would just isolated from anybody else.

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Old Oct 25, 2010, 06:40 AM
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May be you spend too much time thinking about what you will speak to people and how you will keep them? Just relax and communication will happen of its own accord! You'll find what to say when you need something to say, and remember that the best partner in conversation is that one who can listen!
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Old Oct 25, 2010, 09:45 AM
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Is there a friend of your bf you'd like to get to know better? Next party ask for their number like you saw another friend do? It is "work" to make and keep friends, they don't just automatically maintain, one has to do something in common. Find an interest to pursue and become friends with someone based on that interest.
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Old Oct 25, 2010, 05:50 PM
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Old Nov 01, 2010, 04:49 PM
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Zaralee, maybe I'm Not worried, but yiu know why in some other people it's easy for me to talk to them and for some other people aren't? I'm just curious. Thanks for the advice though.
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