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Nov 14, 2010, 06:42 PM
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i recently reconencted with a person i have only heard from him a few times in 6 years.i been hoping for awhile to hear from him.but there is a problem or 2 he has been in the spot light and we live totally different lives.i'm dirt poor and he never has to worry about money.plus in the past he had a few stalkers.i now have his personal email.but i don't want to bug the guy.he has been through enough with stalkers.i meet him in 1988 and i have always wonderd why he is so nice to me.he is married and i know his family a bit.i use to live in the same town as him and we'd every now and then come across each other while shopping etc.i even meet several of his famous friends through him.but at times i'm like doubting our friendship and at times i think he feels sorry for me and maybe that's the only reason he has been nice to me.in the past a few times he has asked me if i'm ok.Because a few times i was at the same event as him and i did not go up to him and say hello.a few family members of mine have meet him and they thought he was nice.even the family members who have meet him has told me not to worry so much about our friendship.they say he he would not be nice to me if he did not care.but every now and then i feel insecure about this.
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Nov 14, 2010, 08:46 PM
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Hello UCLAfan,
I wouldn't worry so much hon, he obviously feels safe with you and feels that you are not going to stalk him, so he is comfortable with your friendship. Be light happy and cool and email him saying how good it is to be in contact again and that you hope he is really well. IT doesn't matter if you are not wealthy, and if something like that is important to him (which it obviously is not), he isn't a friend. Sounds to me that you have a great friendship with someone really nice, so go up to him at venues and say hi if you're both there, Rhiannon
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Nov 15, 2010, 12:55 AM
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well he is retired for what made him known.i live in a different state as him.he do's not care if i have money or not.i'm just self conscious because we live so differently.but he has never treated me bad.he treats me like a equal.he has been nicer to me then most of my family members.
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