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Old Mar 10, 2011, 05:10 PM
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So..i have msgd him for the first time since i apologized for my rash behaviour and contacting him. He has got promoted and i just couldnt bear the impulse to congratulate him on this. He hasnt replied. Erm...is it alrite? It aint very offensive,is it?

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Old Mar 11, 2011, 08:38 AM
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you had a moment of falling back into old habits Its allowed and very understandable!
take a step back and you know the right action to take..... treat him as he treats you, ignore him
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Old Mar 11, 2011, 11:43 AM
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Thanks Belle. At first i thought to block him on fb but then i decided to leave it as it is. He still hasnt replied and i know that he wont. I knew he wont bother wid it but even then i thought he would show the courtesy of saying thanx to me in return. Its like he gives damn to my existence..n it sure hurts like hell!
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Old Mar 11, 2011, 04:29 PM
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Thanks Belle. At first i thought to block him on fb but then i decided to leave it as it is. He still hasnt replied and i know that he wont. I knew he wont bother wid it but even then i thought he would show the courtesy of saying thanx to me in return. Its like he gives damn to my existence..n it sure hurts like hell!
I don't know your story, but I don't think he ignores your existence....that's not true at all.....He just doesn't want to give you a false hope...that's my thinking.....
Also, I suggest you to learn from this and don't repeat it again with any guys...and move on...we are all human beings and we make mistake (if even you call this a mistake!)...but usually when it's broken, it's broken....it's better to build up it with somebody else in some other places....you know what I mean....and trust me you will find....
I would suggest to delete him from your facebook too....It's a best way to forget all about him....
take care of yourself and don't think about it too much
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Old Mar 12, 2011, 01:14 PM
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Thanks marjan i like it when u said that its broken when its broken. I think i had a moment of falling back, BUT im ready to get up again. I mustnt destroy my life just bcoz a guy doesnt like me. :S
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Old Mar 13, 2011, 06:55 AM
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You go girl! seriously you can find a better men than him to share your love and life with xx
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Old Oct 27, 2011, 02:23 PM
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Im reading this again today to find some strength
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