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Dec 07, 2010, 06:40 PM
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Well I just had a talkl with my boyfriend about us fixing our relationship before we go to our third year. I recommended that we go to counseling because we really need it. He claims that he doesn't need to go its me that kust needs to go. I know I have an attitude problem.but he also has problems to. He does things likes make dating profiles I don't know about and drink. We both need this counsling to fix this relationship and I feel like if he can't commit this and we go as a whole then this relationship can't go on. What do you think?
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Dec 07, 2010, 07:19 PM
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Why does he make dating profiles if he is in a commited relationship with you?
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Dec 07, 2010, 07:28 PM
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Maybe just you should go - then you can see clearly if this is a relationship you want to continue or move on - It is hard to fix a relationship when only one wants to make it better and when one seems already moving on by creating dating profiles - Actions speak volumes
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Dec 07, 2010, 07:31 PM
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I think that is one of the problems is the profiles. They say "I'm not really in a commited relationship, really, ask my girlfriend". He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Maybe if you gave him an ultimatum on the profile dating stuff. The drinking...well, that ususally takes a 12 program or other sobriety program.
Did he do these 2 things when you began dating?
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Dec 08, 2010, 11:07 AM
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I agree, maybe try going to therapy by yourself- this may help you get an understanding if you want to stay in the relationship or feel it's best for you to move on.
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Dec 08, 2010, 12:47 PM
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thank you for all your help. I will keep you posted
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