[kbeers]

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years and we have a 1 month old daughter together. Everything was fine from the start but then as we progressed I caught him lying about things like talking to a girl who was just a "friend" and looking at porn. It was just a ton of little lies that came about. Both of these I found out he was lying even when I confronted him. He would tell me he only looks at porn on the computer once or twice a month and when I'm not there. I found out it was a couple times a week AND on his blackberry when I'm home too! I told him I wouldnt care, but I just dont like him lying about stuff and trying to pretend its not going on. He told me he didnt talk to this girl (who i found out he invited over to the house when I was working to drink and get f-ed up) for 3 months, but saw on his phone he had talked to her earlier that week for like 20 mins.

I dont understand why he lied so much about these? I was pretty easy going until all of this came about. I want to trust him so much but it's getting really hard for me to believe what he says. He tells me he doesnt talk to her and wont ever look at porn again and i dont know if i can/should believe him.

Even if he does these i'm ok with it, i just wonder what else he lies about. Especially when he's always like 30 mins late from work..i cant help but question almost everything he tells me and its tearing our realtionship apart! HELP!