to help my situation i have come up with a hopefully a soultion that will make both of us more comfortable , my husband is waiting for contact from exff so he can have closure on the brief relationship that he had with this ff , he thinks that she will contact him one day , as my daughter ihas allready having a friedship with this ff and nothing i can do to put her of we set boundries so if she wants to remain frieds with my husband there will have to be boundries like not getting involved with our marrage again also most contact will be done via txt i dont want my husband hiding the fact that if hes txt her he has to hide it becouse thats were all my doibt comes from if hes open about her txt not content of txts then i can for the sake of my marrage handle him having contact with her as long as he knows when to say certan subjects are not for discussion, i know a lot of ppl wouldnt put up with this bit im going to try it will make me a bit moody but as long as i dont go if on the subject i should be ok and my hisband will belive me when i say i trust him but hes got understand i wont be friends with her or trust her
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