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Mar 05, 2011, 05:31 PM
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I'm not sure what this woman has, but she has something. I went to stay with a woman I met on a web site, she threw me out because I went to a bar to socialise and have entertainment with live music--she accused me of coming on to every man I had social interaction with at a BBQ, her married son, her 21 year old nephew, her plasterer, she told me I hadn't been honest about who I was!
She slandered my character on a web site and called me a *****. She told the worst lies imaginable, twisted everything I sauid to her and painted me black to everyone. She tried to turn people against me, even wrote lies to my best friend, told lies about my family and humiliated me by posting a not so nice photo she jad taken of me for everyone to laugh at me. If anyone tells her anything she doesn't like, she doesn't want to know them, she only wants people to agree with her and enjoy slandering me, she's obsessed with it and really enjoys hurting me. I had done nothing to her. She is 68 and I am 60. What is her disorder? |
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Mar 05, 2011, 11:32 PM
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Well. . . .
May be she has a misunderstanding about u. . . . Try to clear things out. . . . May be things will take a turn. . . . |
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Mar 06, 2011, 02:47 PM
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Some people don't have a disorder. Some people are just mean. Sounds like a desparate cry for attention. I had dealt with this from an ex I broke up with a few years ago. I finally got up the nerve to dump him (we had only dated for a few months but those months were filled with a ton of drama). Afterwards I started getting nasty messages from his friends calling me a *****, telling me I was a ***** and shouldn't have done all this stuff to him (stuff I never did).
I just sent a message back telling them they obviously didn't have the entire story and never heard from them again. A few months later we ended up taking the same class in college and he started texting me and calling me asking for me to come back. Also, when I broke up with him he called me so many names and told me the way I acted, no wonder my ex used to hit me. I dealt with getting mean and assaulting comments (some of his friends had also physically threatened me through emails). I don't know that my ex really has a disorder other than being a total jerk. This woman sounds like she just wants drama. Best to just stay away. If your friends side with her then they obviously are not your true friends and you should probably stay away from them too. Your true friends will ask for your side of the story and stick with you. I know it sucks when someone tries to sully your name and character but the best thing for people who love drama is to just ignore them. She is obviously trying to get you to get back at her and do something so you will sink to her level. Just ignore her....she sounds pretty crazy! |
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Mar 06, 2011, 03:04 PM
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who cares what she has...count your blessings you are out of there....don't look back and try to avoid and eventually the slander will stop
Take care of yourself. You have learned another lesson in life. Sorry fo this!! thinking of you....most important don't dwell on this...keep your serenity!!
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